I need honest advice from the ladies. My wife is boring! We have experimented a few times in the past, but now it's only 2 positions, usually her on top, sometimes me on top. that's it. I have talked to her and she has no logical explanation why. But she loves sex and thinks I'm cheating on her because I'm bored and don't want it as much anymore. Any suggestions?
2007-01-20 03:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it seems you need to take the initiative and show her some of the positions you fancy. Keep an open mind. She may just surprise you when she realises the fun in variety.
2007-01-20 03:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well David to get the "Oh my god YES!" back try some serious four play! Don't turn to porn watching with her bad move, besides it's all fake! Try this for example, when you see her in the kitchen come up behind her and softly kiss her on the base of neck, that is usually the spot that turns most woman on. Maybe some old time fashioned making out on the couch like as if you two were back in high school. The new position thing needs to come naturally without conversation. Make it happen especially while you are giving her a back massage while she is laying down on her stomach. Caress her, rub her and play with her. Whatever you do try to keep her on her stomach. Maybe deep down she is the type of woman who loves it when the man is control and she is just too shy to admit it until the act is done! Try it I am certain she will give in! Good Luck!
2007-01-20 13:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by theresa_whitley_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with your wife. Its in your thinking. Your wife obviously loves sex with you and is satisfied. What more could a man want.? What else is going on with you? Are you tired? Stressed about something? Don't put so much pressure on yourself about performing spectacular sexual feats. Its natural for your sex drive to wane, and if she is not complaining I wouldnt worry so much. If you are actually bored, think of something to make it not boring . It would be hurtful for you to make your wife feel guilty because you are bored with sex, and now she thinks you are cheating. Your creating a big problem here. It doesn't seem like she is puting any pressure on you, so calm down and enjoy your relationship with your wife. You are making her happy and that should make you happy.
2007-01-20 12:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try games they can be fun and romantic you can find some at Spencer's which is in are local mall also there is a site called
Adam and eve they have every thing from toys to movies even fun things to dress in but talk to your wife see if she would want to try any of these Spencer's sell a game called Kama Sutra it is very fun not only is there different positions but things for her like massage and foreplay. But i think your best bet would be a game maybe you can let her pick it out with you. If you like these ideas and want more like mood settings just e-mail me okay
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hope it works good luck and have fun :)
2007-01-20 12:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dakotah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just stop at the different positions. Buy toys that you both might enjoy.Experiment with these toys. Something that has made it better for me and my husband is for us to roll play. I even tell stories of me and others, even though it doesn't really happen, my husband puts me in his mind doing that and it just causes both to be overwhelmed and our love making is better than ever. It turns him on to think that another guy has it for me.It work for me , maybe it will work for you guys. I wish you luck.
2007-01-20 14:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I could tell you is touch your wife a lot more, It makes a woman feel loved witch makes it a lot easier for us to try what you would like ... kind of like you do me and I'll do you.... good luck to you two
2007-01-20 12:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a subscription to cosmo,they always have new sex positions, games, turn ons, etc in every issue. Also, let her know how sexy she is... and when ya'll are about to get it on, suggest a different position.
2007-01-20 12:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
mabey if she thiks you are cheating on her it cud be a reson that she is boring with you becuz she is the one chaeting!!
it also cud be be cuz u only have 2 postions!!
but... mabey she just does love you as much as she used too!!
if u need any more help u can e-mail me at marquisdramaquen@yahoo.com
good luck
2007-01-20 12:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i did have the same problems with my husband we had boring sex but now its not so bad try these: buy some candle different colors light them when she is in the bathroom and when she comes in her bedroom she see the whole place light up then go down on your knees and kiss her toes then suck them then tickle her and so on........ try oral sex and foot on shoulder etc be creative! no anal!
2007-01-20 12:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by really now! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best position that fits you both is to make her bow till she catches her toes and separates her legs.then you can come from the back and force your penis in her vagina hardly hten she will be boring no more.
2007-01-20 12:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by muhammad elian 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋