ok then so this is what happened my frienddid somethng wrong at school and i got blamed for it so i had to write an apology note and i dont mind that and my mom doesnt care because she believes me but my dad gets really mad because he is crazy and so we didnt tell him that but now hes really mad because even though they told my mom they also sent a letter to my house and then my dad got it and now hes mad and he doesnt believe me what should i do?
2007-01-20 03:28:08 · 9 answers · asked by hot_babygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wait for the fire to die down a bit and then ask your dad if you can talk to him. Apologize to him for not telling him in the first place, but try to explain to him that you were afraid because of how he reacts to things. Tell him the truth about what happened, but don't be too surprised if he still doesn't believe you. This may just be one of those things that has to blow over and you may just have to deal with it for a while. Good luck.
2007-01-20 03:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to find a quite time alone with your father and tell him the whole story. It's hard to talk to your father, sometimes, but you really need to do it so that he knows that you are trying the best you can. Keep low profile when you talk to your father--when he is mad, don't talk back. Let him calm down first. It may takes a few tries before you can tell him the whole story.
2007-01-20 11:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by geonautika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack your mom for helping you hide it from your dad...you should have just told him in the first place. of course he's not gonna believe you now, cuz you hid it from him and the only reason to hide something is if you are lying. People may get mad, but they get even more mad if you hide stuff from them and they find out later. It's better to be honest.
2007-01-20 11:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really cool that you did that for your friend and didnt fess up and say that you didnt do it but hiding it from your dad i think made it worse!! even though he might be crazy you could have still told him and mybe it wouldnt be as bad as it is now!! what i would do is talk to your mom about him not believing you and yall all need to sit down and have a talk about it and maybe even call your friend and she/he can say that you didnt do it and that they did and you just got balmed for it. well i hope i helped!!
good luck
2007-01-20 11:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all that happen and then i have no idea what the hell you are talking about but now since you asked this question, then all of us will answer but now we have to understand what the hell are you talking about? Tell me what you mean now?
2007-01-20 11:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin Marwaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your mom talk to him and try to convince him that it was your friend, not you. But its his choice whether he beleives you or not. But at least your mom is on your side and she can help you out. If you can, try to get your friend to tell your dad that it was them. Good luck to you.
2007-01-20 11:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by aneps_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmmm what should u do... in my oponion...try to be positif.. about ur father..... try to slow talk with him.. tell him the true what was happened to u.... he dont know the true what was happend... u must patient about ur dad.. its general when fther... let say... u try to go out with ur father... but u must ask ur moher to help u... tell ur mother to ask ur dad go out with u.. then maybe u go out for dinner, fishing or something... and try to tell him the true...
2007-01-20 11:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by axial_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and take the punishment cause your friend will never fess up. be honest it will help
2007-01-20 11:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAY I HELP YOU ? ! !
2007-01-20 11:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by parekhs_carewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋