firstly, i have know her for almost 2 years and i'm gonna that i'mm gonna tell her that i like her very much soon cuz she is gonna leave for overseas for studies. I dont want to use the word "love" cuz i find it too strong. I told her that i wanna meet her in person soon as i have something important to tell her (meaning i'm gonna tell her). but she is just being all busy & keep wanting me to tell her thru MSN. i told that it is important for me to tell her in person and she was like "whatever" and i felt that she is a bit upset for not telling her.I dont know if she knows that i like her or not and I really dont want to tell her that i like her on the day she is gonna leave. i want to tell her soon. what should i do ? any advices?
2007-01-20 03:21:42 · 12 answers · asked by meNimE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she was upset?... bcoz she expected to her something good from you! like tou love her or you like her.....say it in whatever way, the most important is you let her know how you feel. GO!
2007-01-20 03:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now I think she figured out that you do like her, but wanted you to tell her through MSN because she has no idea how she would react, even if she knows what your gonna ask. She may be trying to avoid you because she has the same feelings, but since she is leaving overseas soon, doesnt want the whole good-bye thing. The best thing I can tell you to do is ask her out to like a typical hang-out place and ask her there. There will be obsticles, but you would go pass them if it means to be with her. And dont be afraid to use love if thats how you feel, but be wise about using it.
2007-01-20 03:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so reluctant...
Time is not on your side...
Girls like boys with strong personality...
You need to be a bit forward with a solid attitude so as to CONVINCE her with your feelings
Besides,,,, How do you think she will re-act to your confession..
I think you need to DO SOMETHING FAST before it gets too late..
Being yourself is HOW you should sound & seem to her... You either tell her straight in the eye with an honest talk of an eye, or you go around the issue with a phrase like: "I feel it is LOVE inside this heart of mine when it comes to telling you what I feel"
This may give you & her a BREAK....
For God's sake man...be straight & solid ....
If you think "LOVE" is too strong of a word, then how about her...What do you expect her to say when it is time for good bye between you two....
If you wish her to travel while having you in mind, then JUST BE YOURSELF...
Say it out, loud and crystal clear, and I DO HOPE SHE WILL BE SURPRISED WITH WHAT YOU TELL HER, since I bet you she never heard a word from you about it...
Cut the story short my friend and have a few days with her before she travels...
2007-01-27 05:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a place you can go and tell your secrets too. Do you know where to go or who to tell them too?
Look at my pic and see those clouds as the Sun emerges.
Once you have been answered to your problems that haunts you, you will be that Sun emerging and you won't be afraid of anything and you will know what to say, when to say it.
Your the new Method of Modern Love:)
2007-01-20 03:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY ME I MET THIS LADY ON LINE AND WE TALKED ON LINE ONLY...AND I FOUND MYSELF GROWING MORE AND MORE FOND OF HER EVERYTIME WE TALKED... SHE LIVED IN TENNEESSEE AND I IN ALABAMA....BUT WE ARE STILL ALMOST 300 MILES AWAY FROM ONE ANOTHER...WE SPOKE ON YAHOO AND HAVE SEEN EACHOTHER ON WEB-CAM...SE WE KNEW WHAT TO EXPECT...WE MET ONE SATURDAY MORNING AT 2:40 AM...WE TALKED IN A PARKING LOT...FOR ABOUT AN HOUR AND I WENT BACK HOME...WE SHARED A KISS...AND WE MADE PLANS TO MEET AGAIN THAT NEXT THURSDAY...WELL THATS BEEN A FEW MONTHS AGO...WE HAVE SEEN EACHOTHER ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS.............................WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY IS "YOU " MUST MAKE THAT FIRST MOVE... DONT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT CAUSE ALL YOU'LL DO IS SCARE HER OFF...THEN YOUR CHANCES ARE ZIPPPPPPPPPPPP... DO WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO MEET HER BEFORE SHE LEAVES...OR YOU'LL REGREAT IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE...WHO KNOWS MAYBE SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU... BUT IF YOU LET THIS PASS YOU BY THEN WHO KNOWS SHE MAY FIND HER LOVE WHERE EVER SHE ENDS UP.......
2007-01-27 04:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with John W too Same thing happened to me!
I would rather be sorry for something i did than something i did!
No guts no Glory! take a deep breathe and jump!
2007-01-27 10:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her.... if you can do something today, then why wait for tomorrow? coz if you wait for tommorow, it might never come...
so basically i understand that you want to make it special...well i think you should just go ahead and say it coz u might not be able to meet eachother... so go ahead!!!
2007-01-28 00:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better tell her quick before she gets bored of you
and starts looking around for someone else !! Not kidding..
its true..
2007-01-27 16:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk to her and say you know you are very pritty and i would like to take u on a date do you want to go.
2007-01-28 02:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by mschesterfield4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol she just don't want to accept. you need to send a lot letters.
2007-01-27 06:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by chajen v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋