ok its new kid in or neighborhood and high school named charles! i thought he was cute so i started talkin to him on the bus and stuff! then this girl out of the blue askes me can i dance! i didnt say anything! she was like you probably dance like a white girl! then she asked have i ever been to a party and gave a boy a lap dance! i said no thats nasty! (my parents dont allow me to go to parties without invitations and i really dont like goin to parties) then she said i need to start havin fun! she did all this in front of charles! i called him but he didnt answer last nite! i was going to explain to him that i respect myself and i dont do those things that (hoes) do! i was also going to say that if you want a lil hoe then you can talk to laura but if you want a girl who respects herself come talk to me! you know♥
2007-01-20 03:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whe talk on the phone and stuff! he said he likes me and i said i like him but i really want to get to know him better before i go with him♥
2007-01-20 03:17:18 · update #1
u still have a chance. keep calling till u get him and tell him how u feel
2007-01-20 03:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by i luv u all :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have two situations going on. What would make you think that Charles would have an immediate opinion of you as a 'lap dancer' just because of some girl's comment on the bus. I hope by high school this young man has some sense of knowing that the comments someone else makes has nothing to do with the conversation he has had with you. If you have been talking, then I am sure your moral thinking and expectations have been discussed prior to this bus ride. And just because he didn't answer the phone doesn't mean all hope is gone. Don't rush it. Just play it one day at a time. Girls really need to slow down and take time to know boys - remember, they are a little more cautious about 'relationship' than we are. On the average, girls mature faster than boys - and boys can be fickle. Who knows, he might have 'heard' what she said and might have been 'tuned' in for a moment - but you go on about your life - take care of yourself, your focus on your studies and just see what he does. But keep your eye open. There are plenty of young men to meet and talk with.
2007-01-20 11:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School Junk! Guess what if he do call Laura he wants to get a freaky girl. You sound more relegius, more concervative or i would say very concervative. Now I am not gon lie a good boy would love himself a girl like you but not High Schoolers, trust me! They looking to get laid and get laid as much as they can. So most likely because there was too much info exchanged on how you are and what you do or dont do because this girl put you on a spot in front of him he realized that you are not what he is looking for....possible laid. I wouldnt stress over this guy. And i wouldnt change myself either, even though i dont know how can you not like parties. I was at parties since like junor high and i still go to them whenever i can. Parties dont necessary mean you need to have someone or get all freaky and nasty. Party can mean hang out, have more friends, have MORE FANS. Yeaahh!
2007-01-20 11:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if she ruined it for you then better now then in the future when you found out he was only looking for one thing. It sounds to me that you have a great head on your shoulders and a boy would be lucky to be with you. Dont sell yourself short on anyone. You carry yourself with respect and keep your head up. Dont let anyone make you feel bad for having respect for yourself and dont let anyone pressure you into thinking that you shouldnt be the way you are. You dont even have to explain anything to him for you to have to explainwould be for something that your doing wrong and what you are doing is trying your best to be the best person that you can be without degrading yourself....... GIRL keep your head up high and dont let any boy or girl make you feel like you have to defend or have to explain the way you choose to live your life. If he is worth it he will know and if not someone else better than him will come your way.
2007-01-20 11:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by jlofayetteville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. If he'd rather be around a party girl that gives lap dances then he wasn't worth your time anyway. Talk to him on the bus again. He probably realizes that "Laura" was just jealous anyway.
2007-01-20 11:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the rain fall. When it falls and you are happy then it's good, but when it pours and your sad these moments you feel need to be healed .
You are the warmth and your heart is full of love and you want to share that love with someone, but nobody will listen to you they think your nothing and have nothing to say about anything and they're wrong. That's where they (yourfriends) have stepped off the cliff and under estimated you as a person.
Soon enough they will know who you really are...let your light shine and all will be fine.
2007-01-20 11:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH man! What a butthead. If he wants a girlfriend who has no morals, than he's a butthead too! You sound like a good girl and don't waste your time on him. But first, you should see if thats really his "type". Talk to him on the bus again!
2007-01-20 11:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Hope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
la chica, you are right and don't you ever, ever give in to people like Laura. If he called Laura because of her conversation with you in front of him then he wasn't really your kind anyway. I'm very proud of you little chick.
2007-01-20 11:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he want's a girl like thet laura...Then what do you need him ...A woman thet respect herself doese't need somebody like thet guy and I think that you could find somebody that has a brain..And so what if you don't go to parties is thet so much important .....Just remeber that tere are mora important things in life and thet he is just one in a milliom of boys thet you will meet
2007-01-20 11:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try again, maybe he wasn't home, or just wasn't available to answer the phone. If he doesn't answer for a few days, than just let it go, he's not good enough for you anyway.
2007-01-20 11:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋