I am getting married soon..i do mastrubation since i was 19, now i am 22... i dont do everyday.. will this affect my marriage life... do i need to hide this from my partner because we hail from religious and orthodox family in india..
2007-01-20 03:03:21 · 19 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am A GIRL.....
2007-01-20 03:09:03 · update #1
I am a 22 yrs Female from india
2007-01-20 03:10:21 · update #2
it's natural and u don't do anything wrong, but when u married u will feel different, the masturbation is when no one near u but when u are married that u will do it to her.. so nothing to worry about
2007-01-20 03:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no medical/ scientific ground to indicate that masturbation would affect a normal married life for an individual. There is nothing wrong with you and this will not affect your married life. With regard to your query as to whether you would need to share this with your husband, my suggestion is that you should be open to him about this given that you have chosen him as your life partner.
2007-01-20 06:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Vivek R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mastrbation is very normal and for everyone out there that says i don't do that, well you are lieing.Guys love to see a woman giving herself pleasure, it will cause him to want to and then you both will have better sex due to the exictement that the other has brought to the other. Don't stop, you give it hell girl. He'll love it.
2007-01-20 07:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will not affect your married life unless you want it to. If you choose to share this with your husband the result could enhance your sex lives. If you choose to keep it to yourself don't feel bad it's a normal thing to do and you don't need to feel guilty. Being comfortable with your body and your sexuality will make you a better lover and being in control of your own sexual needs will make you a happier person.
2007-01-20 03:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will affect your marriage. If it does then stop. As far as telling him, it is up to you to decide if you have the kind of relationship that is open enough for that. My husband knows if and when I do it and vise versa.
2007-01-20 03:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't see anything wrong with it, I understand that you are of a religious back round but you shouldn't put your sexuality on the back burner. If your that worried about it maybe you should take your future husband by the hand and let him watch. You never know he might like it! Don't be ashamed of who you are and taking care of your personal needs. Be proud of your sexuality!!
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2007-01-20 03:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Diablõ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Masturbation ios perfectly normal.....
But as u said u r from India things are pretty different here......
U have to talk to ur partner about that and make him understand that as men do it same way grls too do it and thats perfectly normal, u might not be physically virgin as u might have lost the Hymen seal and otherwise all is normal.........
2007-01-20 03:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if you have not told ur future Husband I think its best to tell him now before the wedding.He might take it the wrong way if you wait till after your married.
2007-01-20 03:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by SweetHeart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think it is fine. Most men find it a turn on. Just talk to your mate, and then if that is the only thing stopping you then your marrage is never meant to be.
2007-01-20 03:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by fatjoke2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep wailing on that thing, girl. Everybody does it - married, unmarried, everybody. Try doing it with your husband. Sometimes leads to other things...
2007-01-20 13:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋