We're haivng a party to celebrate the end of this class at the end of the semester and people have implied that everyone is invited, but the thing is that they're going to have drinks there and I don't care but for some reason I think people think I'm really innocent, and I probably wouldn't drink but I don't mind being at a party where other people drink. And I don't usually go or get invited to parties but they sort of implied that everyone was invited. And one of the kids who organized it was talking to two other kids who don't usually drink and was trying to convince them to go but never talked to me. DO you think I'll get invited? Should I maybe bring it up casually? Or is that arrogant?
2007-01-20 03:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ask them if they mean everyone does that include you? Because you'd really love to go.
2007-01-20 03:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your biggest fear is probably that if you go people will make you feel like you shouldn't be there. Don't make the mistake of talking yourself into thinking that. You should force yourself to go and try to be open to conversations with people. If you don't try to make friends then you won't. If it doesn't work out then it's not the end of the world. But it could be the best decision you ever made too. It's hard to say how things will turn out but it's better to give it a shot than to not and always wonder "what if".
2007-01-20 20:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as you suggested and bring it up casual like with one of the organizers.
don't be shy about not drinking you your cool with others who do so that's all fine .
2007-01-20 11:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go they said everyone is invited right?
2007-01-20 11:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by baby_doll_o1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go. and don't drink.
2007-01-20 11:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go
2007-01-20 11:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Raveen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋