a guy she just met and she and him decided to be friends after that and fool around or whatever, a skank? and he's the only guy she'll fool around with? They use protection
2007-01-20 02:54:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I thought about the consequences and stuff.
I used the word skank in place of S**t so my post wouldn't get deleted
2007-01-20 03:00:48 · update #1
No, you aren't a skank, whore, slut, or any other derogatory term just because you chooses to have sex. As long as you are using protection and you aren't forcing or coercing him, have fun:D
2007-01-20 04:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were comfortable in your decision you would not be asking us if we thought you were a skank, I personally think you lack self esteem but it is nothing you can't gain, stop "fooling" around with this one guy, trust me no matter what he says he thinks you are a skank he just got a virgin without even trying and with no strings attached and he will get more, trust me sweetie all his friends already know, and just because you will only fool around with him doesn't mean he is not sleeping with other women. You sound sweet so stop now and get some self worth, integrity, and confidence before you have relations that may hurt you in the end, Your virginity is gone and not coming back, integrity and values are yours to keep.
2007-01-20 21:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy is a complete moron and he doesn't know the difference between the first time and..., what was that word, (skank???, what ever, a take a real man and some experience to know a good thing from a bad thing, especially in a sexual relationship????, plus she was a virgin????, I have a 12 years old that knows a lot better than than, and he use protections??? is there something wrong with this picture or is just my Imagination.........., If this happen to you, please do me a favor, and realize that he is not capable of seeing the true, and the true difference between male and female. This is what I call ignorance or the legacy of the last materialistic pseudo Society that will never become. Only in America.
2007-01-20 11:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by paradiseemperatorbluepinguin 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
A man wouldnt even question behavior like this so....no...not a skank or a s**t either....women enjoy sex...we do have to be more careful about it then men do....we cant put ourselves into positions where we are vulnerable and for that reason we do tend to need to trust the person we are f***ing...and if we do, and we use protection...we are just having fun, and being human.
2007-01-20 23:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by motherhendoulas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She not a skank. If a guy could fool around with a girl then she is not a skank. Guys should be called skanks to if woman are considered skanks when they do that.
2007-01-20 14:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by bee bee boo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe it makes you a skank, but are you comfortable with yourself in this situation? If not get out of it. It's good that you use protection, but has nothing to do with your question
2007-01-20 11:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by tim s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doubting that what you did was right. Why are you worried about what others think? If it is something that you wanted to do and thought about the consequences of your actions then don't worry about it. It sounds like you wanted more and you were let down. You only get what you ask for. You let others treat you the way you want to be treated. Remember that. You only have control over yourself. You have no control over others.
2007-01-20 10:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No she's not. Skank is not a nice word and the girl sounds like a nice girl.
2007-01-20 10:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by 2D 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As much as I hate to do it, I'm going to bring the dictionary into this:
skank (skÄngk) Pronunciation Key
n.
1. A rhythmic dance performed to reggae or ska music, characterized by bending forward, raising the knees, and extending the hands.
2. Disgusting or vulgar matter; filth.
3. One who is disgustingly foul or filthy and often considered sexually promiscuous. Used especially of a woman or girl.
So according to the dictionary, one time doesn't make you a skank.
However, according to my personal opinion in which I have distaste for sex outside of a monogamous, committed relationship (not necessarily marriage), then yes, you are a skank.
Go with whichever makes you happier.
2007-01-20 11:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
uhm.. i wouldnt soo much use the word skank but a sl*t maybe??? and thats kinda gross if ur only friends with the guy bcuz of she wants to fool around.
2007-01-20 10:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋