i have this b/f he dosent work but ido he is lazy wont lift a finger he is all ways in the pub in the day we have no kids of each other we dont have sex what do i do please give me some advice
2007-01-20 02:32:40 · 23 answers · asked by browneyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
trade him in for a better more reliable model.
2007-01-20 11:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do, is respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself he never will, nor the next person. You have to teach them how to treat you. If they can't meet your simple expections you must move on. Also, don't make him feel as if you "need" him, cause if he feels hes needed, he will stay the way he is, unless he is shown otherwise. I would keep looking forward, making something of yourself and find someone that will respect you for what you are and what you contribute to the relationship. This guy seems he is lazy in more than one aspect of his life and you will not find him putting effort into the relationship, if he can't even do it with simple things such as work. Move on Deary, you will be better off, but respect yourself more hon so you can find someone that will!
2007-01-20 02:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, why do you need advice?
It doesn't even sound like you love or indeed like the guy?
Do you have so low self esteem and think that nobody else will love you?
Why are you still with him when all parts of you, mind, soul, body say to you to walk away?
Are you afraid to be on your own?
I think that it's up to you to make a decision here.
It's like you'd need someone to tell you what to do in every area of your life and need constant approvement.
Babe, trust yourself sometimes, even if you were to make a mistake, at the end of the day, it's your life and you have to try and take risks. Accept that nobody knows better for sure.
Sometimes intuition is worth 10 pieces of advice!
Seems to me that you know the answer to that one babe.xx
2007-01-20 06:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are silly to pursue this relationship. Clearly the man is sponging off you and you are silly enough to mother him and provide for him. Chuck him out. Move on with your life and stop being so deperate that you KEEP him. WHy spend your hard earned money on a lazy bum. Why even ask this question when you know you are being foolish?
2007-01-20 22:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there done got the debts to go with it. Get rid of this loser before he drains all the life out you. You deserve someone better and you deserve a better life than this. He will never change . Find someone new and catch up on everything you've been missing out on since getting with this leech
2007-01-23 03:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET ANOTHER B/F. THIS PERSON IS A DUD. You deserve a man that will love and respect you. All he wants is sex and perhaps some money to sit at the pub.
2007-01-20 02:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why exactly are you with this fine specimen of a man ? Ask yourself what you are getting from this relationship and if the answer is bugger all then find someone who will appreciate and love you - life is too short - run away and run fast !
2007-01-21 09:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by zsphodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! You deserve much better. Find someone who treats you with respect and doesnt spend all his time with his mates in the pub.
2007-01-22 21:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him too get off of his lazy butt and start working or you'll leave him. that usually tends to put them into high gear. dont let him treat you that way. no one has the right to be lazy like that.
2007-01-20 02:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser get rid of him. he sounds like a DRUNK!! u deserve better. he has no future & u should move on. he's lazy he will not change overnight. he needs a reality check & u can b just that by leaving his sorry a..
2007-01-20 02:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him he is no good for yoy. You need someone who will work together with you. I doubt he will change he is using you. Good luck
2007-01-20 03:28:11 · answer #11 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋