i like him and he knows.I've been pretty obvious.He still flirts with me but then sometimes not so much.We smile,talk,tease and laugh with eachother and then sometimes he's standoffish.If he didn't feel the same why would he keep flirting,i haven't asked him so i don't know how he feels.Lately i've noticed him avoiding eye contact with me,but there have been times when he has stared me down when i walked by or he walked by.he had a serious look on his face.and another thing is he's started telling me what i can and can't do.it's as if he is my father sometimes.but then he talks with me and jokes around and teases me.he has even asked me to hang out with him and his friend but i said no.i didn;t even think of him as a possibility until he came and tried making plans with me one day.and told me how he saw something and thought of me.does it sound like he likes me and has been hitting on me?
2007-01-20 02:32:00 · 13 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is sometimes really awkward, when you like someone, and you aren't sure they are going to reject you...which sounds like what he is feeling...if you like him,..you need to ask him out on a little date, for a walk, etc..and just force yourself to be honest..as it is always the best policy...don't ask friends,...just be frank, and start off by telling him you really like him..and then, throw the ball in his court and ask him, what does he think of you, and your friendship?..and then, take it further, depending on his answer.. good luck..sounds like the beginning of a good relationship,...just clear it up
2007-01-20 02:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound's like he has some attraction to you.The best thing for you to do is simply talk to him and ask him how he feel's.Why sit around and guess when all you have to do is ask you will get an answer.I am a bit bothered by the fact that you said he tell's you what you can and can't do that is a red flag sign of a controling person and you are not an anmial so don't allow anyone to try and control and treat you as such.
2007-01-20 10:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little wishy washy to me. How old is he? He seems to like you, but yet he is jerking your chain at the same time. I would blow him off and see what he does. Then, if he asks you what your problem is tell him he needs to make a decision of whether he wants to date you or not. If he wants to just be friends he needs to be honest with you so you can both stop playing silly games.
2007-01-20 10:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him what his intentions are with you so you can be clear about it. You can't speculate on anything until you really know how he feels toward you. Sounds like he has you really confused, so go ahead and ask him what is going on. Maybe he just wants to be friends. I have guy friends that are flirty towards me but I don't pay any attention to them, that is just the way they are and I don't read anything in to it and they wouldn't expect me to. Some guys are just hard to figure out, ask him and get it over with!!
2007-01-20 10:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you just tell him how you feel? You would feel so much better. Maybe he's too shy to come to you frist. I know that's hard but take that leap. Well if he didn't like you, he would not have invited you out with him and his friends, but if I were you I would just bite the bullet, balls to the wall. Life's too short to think about well, i should have done this, or that. would have, could have, should have.
2007-01-23 00:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by bubbieandbella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys are afraid of rejection. So he smiles at times getting the courage up to ask you, IF you are interested and give enough hints. Definitely hitting on you and not cuz he hates you.
2007-01-20 10:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for guys, we like to abouch girls differently then what girls do and the way girl want guys to abouch them!
Here are steps to help you out.........
1. act like you dont notice him at all! - this will make wonder what is going on
2. make a plan! what are you going to do? talk to him from time to time like good friends
3. make sure he knows the good sides of you - how you act
4. look hot around him - it makes us guys want to stare at you ALOT!
5. this is old but, drop your pencil around him, does he pick it up?
6. if he writes you a note asking to go out with you - play around with him, dont answer him right away, or write back to him on a totally different subject
7. fall into him - us guys like it when you fall into us, grad his hand and hold it lol it may sound strange but if he likes you then he will keep his hand with yours :)
2007-01-20 10:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go out with him and see. If then he treats you right keep going with him. If he still a on and off thing forget about him
2007-01-20 10:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he is just about to reach the caveman stage of manhood. Comeback when he learns to treat you better.
2007-01-20 10:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite possible he is gay ya know and doesnt want to take it any futher than having a really good time.
2007-01-20 10:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by tomy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋