Everytime we have intercouse its uncomfortable when he enters me its uncomfortable and I tell him to go slower but when he getting ready to orgasm he goes faster and deeper which causes discomfort too. Sometimes i get discomfort on the day as well as the following day. The first time we slept together I was very lubricated at the end but now I dont seem to be self lubricating. I am 26 and he is my first partner and a big 10. Can you help?
2007-01-20 01:47:56 · 10 answers · asked by darkchild 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
go see a doctor. sounds like you might have some kind of infection. or a tilted uterus.
and when he starts going fast and furious hit him on the head or pinch his waist or pull his leg hairs. something to cause him the same amount of pain you are feeling. 'it' will probably go a bit soft and he'll hate it because 'it' will hurt, too. (what comes around goes around, dude)
2007-01-20 01:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "big" first partner is a tough one. While it is true that pain during intercourse can be a sign of an infection or more serious health problem, it is more likely that there is nothing wrong.
The other folks are right, lube, lube, lube. There is no shame in using a personal lubricant; the idea that a woman isn't really turned on unless she is naturally wet is totally false. All kinds of things can affect natural lubrication, including alcohol or caffeine consumption, and water intake. Keep a bottle or tube of water-based lube near the bed and use it, both on the outside of the condom and around your vaginal opening. Some of the discomfort you feel after sex may be due to skin irritation from friction. Lubricant will help that.
As for the depth issue, many women find bumping of the cervix uncomfortable. If your partner is getting that deep, that may be the cause of the problem. Try some positions where he won't be entering you as deeply, or maybe from a different angle. If he isn't willing to cooperate, you may want to rethink the relationship. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you!
If you try these things and still have discomfort, talk to your doctor. That could be a sign that there is a medical issue that needs to be addressed. And to prevent many issues, be sure to use condoms!
2007-01-20 02:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Tall Blond Chick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see your Gyn doctor. There are many things that can cause this discomfort and trying to diagnose them on the Internet is tough to do.
If the issue is lubrication, then, there are several on the market that are good. I would still go see your doctor to make sure its not a physical issue inside that is the problem.
2007-01-20 01:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is lubrication. Use products like Wet or Astroglide. Use them as part of foreplay and again when he is going to penetrate your vagina. You will be amazed at the improvement. If he is "extra big", urge him not to go so deep.
2007-01-20 01:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds very much like you have some sort of problem going on, PID (pelvic inflammatory disease), or tilted uterus. You should really go see an GYN to have it checked out. You will be glad you did and then enjoy more :)
2007-01-20 02:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Wprecious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world lol try a different kind of condom they make them with a lubricant on them and talk to your ob about what is going on and she can prescribe you some thing
2007-01-20 01:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to see a doctor on this.Do not delay.Good luck.
2007-01-20 04:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bala I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try some ky liquid you may also wont to be on top so you are in control of how deep it goes in
2007-01-20 02:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck on his big 10
2007-01-20 07:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by gregg98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋