2007-01-20 01:28:08 · 13 answers · asked by Aussie/B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can fully understand your feelings because I too am just out of a relationship that cant be reconciled but is suicide the answer? If you do that then the other person just goes on and you simply are no more. As a survivor of the same actions I can tell you that though he may be gone, his family still suffers. Dont end your own chance at future happiness because you didnt find the right person this time. Look me up if you need to talk but please reconsider this. Best wishes.
2007-01-20 01:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by funloving_selfassured_redhead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would u let someone who didn't love u anyway have so much control over your emotions? suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. if this person left u, than u never had their love anyway, so u lost nothing, but a little ego. all has to do with what u are telling yourself about u, no self esteem. but why let this person make u feel as if it is the end of the world. your just a bit immature, and haven't learned that this is just a part of normal life, it is actually a part of the growing up process. we should never love and trust so much in another that it causes us to have no hope if they leave us. u just have trouble letting go of things, u think it has to do with u, but in reality it has all to do with the other person, and their faults. get some counciling, need to get your self confidence back. don't give up your life because of an upset, a rejection, because when one door closes to us, another may open up, and what is behind the new door may be much better than what we left.
2007-01-20 02:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly a person who was in love and the relationship end . may feel suicidal yes this is reactive depression. First don't go attempting to kill yourself. Second understand that getting some help at a time like this is smart wise good needed expected normal sensible and right . i hope you do the right thing and feel better soon and find new love even greater then old love.
2016-05-24 00:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A failed relationship is never a reason for suicide. You have to go on with your life. There may be bigger and better things out there for you to experience. Don't you want to find out? I have loved and lost before and yes, it is depressing. Yet there are so many other people out there just like you. You have to think positive. Please don't feel so alone. It is not the end of the world. You will be okay, you will find love again, I promise. Try and keep your mind off of the situation. Keep yourself busy. I wish you the best of luck and love. Hang in there...please, because you ARE worthy.
2007-01-20 02:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you're obviously a guy. You probably had the misfortune of caring about someone who put their own needs first. I'm not going to condemn her for that though. What you need to do is learn from this experience, if you don't learn, then you truly did waste your time. This is your lesson.
Women are not worth it.
That's right, not worth giving all of yourself for no reciprocation. You are the most important person in the whole of your existence, and if you don't look out for you, no one will. No woman definitely will.
Women are also not worth killing yourself. You can't make someone care about you. You have to care about yourself. It's all about feelings, and if you can't feel good, what's the use?
Alot of people will tell you it's greedy to worry about yourself first, but those people are probably hypocrites, or just naive. Empower yourself, and don't let someone who doesn't care enough about you to give you a definite reason for leaving get you down. Killing yourself won't end suffering, and it's not going to make her feel sorry for ditching you.
Nobody is gonna care about your needs whether you live or die, so you might as well live, and try to squeeze out all of life's happiness that you've obviously been denying yourself until now.
2007-01-20 01:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicidal over a failed relationship? Are you gonna let this person have that much power over you? They must not've been that great in the first place. Don't be a fool twice...once for picking them and giving them your love and now this. I hope you'll read this before you take another step.
2007-01-20 01:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
please, calm down. do not act on the feeling you have right now. i know exactly what is going through your mind. a month ago, i find out my wife was supposed to be sleeping with my cousin and i felt as if i wanted to do that. i realized that it was nothing i could do, and that killing myself would hurt my family a lot more than the pain i was feeling myself. you have a lot of people that love and care for you. dont let this one person make you do something crazy. please, be safe. get around someone and talk to them. please, dont do something crazy. it isnt worth it. the person who left you just may not have been that one. you WILL find someone who will love you and treat you the way you deserve.
2007-01-20 01:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they're right when they say "living well is the best revenge"
Get over the ***** and make yourself and your life the best ever. Then go rub her nose in it and laugh when she's gained 50 pounds and married to a high school dropout garbage man
2007-01-20 01:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by curious george 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!
Suicide is a LONGTERM solution for a short term problem
People disappoint us all the time
GROW with it
Dont die for it
2007-01-20 01:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! keep cool urself as suicide is coward.stand up n stand firm urself to face the reality in life.
2007-01-20 01:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋