2007-01-20 01:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are usually warning signs. I dated this guy in the past who said he broke up with his fiancee, I believed him because we were good friends. We ended up dating and getting serious. His so called ex girlfriend called my house one day looking for him. I asked her why and she said she had a feeling he was cheating on her with another woman. Suprisingly the name she gave wasn't mine. I immediately told her about our relationship and she told me they were still living together and planning the wedding. She didn't believe me so I had her come to my house and talk to my roomates who heard him say they were broken up, etc. We decided to not let him know that we had talked and watched as he started fooling around with another woman. Needless to say we told the other woman, I dumped him, she moved out of his house. He was left alone like cheaters should be. If your man is acting wierd or has places to go or someone to run home to, dump him. If he is married he should honor his vows, if he doesnt he is scum and you don't want him anyway, he will probably do the same thing to you whether you want to believe it or not. There is an old saying "Once a cheater always a cheater" in my past experiences seems to prove true.
2007-01-20 01:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I haven't been in that situation before but yet I know how it feels. I have a story to share but in her case, he wasn't married but engaged (it's the same isn't it?). A close friend of mine was going out with a guy who is 10 years her senior, she was so in love with him. As usual, he made promises of marrying her but months after months it's the same thing until one day she found out that he has a fiancee of 1 year and is about to get married in a week's time. Just imagine how she feels.
If you're in this sticky situation (worst if he's married and all), just get out of there! You wouldn't wanna be tangled in this mess he have created!
2007-01-20 09:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to women all the time. The married man wants someone easy and vulnerable. He make promises he knows he is not intending to keep. But if it works for him, he keeps on doing it. Lieing is part of the game.
2007-01-20 09:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to a girlfriend of mine, before she was my girlfriend. He was working away from home over an extended period and had a wife and family in another city.
2007-01-20 09:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It was awful.
I found out by his wife knocking on my door with their five month old baby.
Even though I kicked him to the curb when he told her in front of me that he wanted to be with me she still took him back, some women have no self-respect for themselves.
2007-01-20 11:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no is a mistress like a maid no I have never been that why have u
2007-01-20 09:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u didn't know it is not your fault, but if u know now, than u need to stop seeing him, before u get hurt. means he lied to u, and was dishonest about himself. should remove yourself from the relationship as he could do to u what he is doing to her.
2007-01-20 09:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have. i was 16 & engaged to a 19 yr old.we dated for a long time and I had always called, even went to his parents house.
1 day i call and someone new answers & I ask for him ...she says who are YOU? I said his fiance who are you? she said HIS WIFE.................OMGGGGGGGGGGG we set a plan up to confront him it was awesome but i felt so bad for me & her.......BUT we got him GOOD.. and by the way he was really 26...the jerkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
2007-01-20 09:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only when my boyfriend and I like to roleplay.
2007-01-20 09:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Emily S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope
2007-01-20 09:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by sierra g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋