my "bestfriend" lies, steals from stores, cheats, werid (in a bad way)is mean, and starts drama with everyone and gets me into it with her.. shes fightin theses girls and telling them that im helping her.. shes makin me lose all my friends,.. and shes annoyin SOMETIMES.. but u dont understand, u cant just leave your best friend we havee sooooooooo much fun and good and happy times togther that i cant forget.. and i see her in school everyday and talk to her like every second of my life.. but shes startin to get to me and everyone else.. ALOT. But if i stop being her BEST friend i wont have a best friend..ill just have regular friend and its not the sam.. and i need one
2007-01-20 01:07:12 · 11 answers · asked by x0xsweetestsin0x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd rather not have ANY friends than to have a best friend like that.
2007-01-20 01:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like this and we are grown up and some of the things have stopped like the stealing but she can still raise h*ll at the wrong time there are days i wonder why i am still friends with her but then there are so many times i can't imagine life with out her and the one thing about mine SHE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME and it has been for a lot. when i was in the hospital she moved in my house and took care of my family. when i was pregnant i have many complication and was parishly blind and her another friend were there for me she helps me all the time and i know i would never ever give her up now. so my dear you need to figure it out talk to her and let her know it bothers you if she is like my friend she will be mad for a few days but she will get over it i am sure also what is this girls family life like my friend has had the worst family life you can ever imagine and i am sure that hase played a role so try to help her especially if she does have a bad family life if she can't count on her family then aybe you are all she has and without you she may just get worse. i will pray for you and hope the best high school years can be rough at times good luck
2007-01-20 01:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by LOLO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. all the ppl change.. u had happy times when she was better that she is now.. n leave her alone... u really need 2 talk... it's not a "best friend" after that, trust me... n it's better not 2 hv any best friends, even for 2 long... u'll find a better 1... u just talk 2 her, tell how ur feeling about this.... look what she answeres... if she'll continue like that, just DUMP her... save urself NOW coz u'll lose all ur friends! as u say she's makin u 2 lose all ur friends./.. so it's better 4 u if u'll start a new relationship wth her or just stop any!
good luck
2007-01-20 01:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by rrru888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in life we have to do the best thing for us. If this person is such a bad influence ask yourself if u would want your little sister or daughter (if u had a daughter) being best friends with her? No one make the choice for u. Try talking to her first, let her know how u feel, if she's willing to change, better yet, if not then u know what u have to do.
2007-01-20 01:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by sueann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I'm going through like the exact same thing. My best friend is loud and always draws attention to her self like falling or screaming when her crush passes so he looks at her. or when the guy i like passes by she pushes me into him. She is pretty annoying but i love her to death. Since i've been friends with her i dont really have nay other friends. I mean i have friends just not like her just those people you kind of talk to. Me and my best friend are always together even though we are total opposites we still are bff. Yes your friend may get on your nerves but don't stop being her friend, it would be a BIG mistake. Maybe try to talk with her about the bad things she does. I know how you feel...trust me JUST DON"T STOP BEING HER BEST FRIEND
-KH-
2007-01-20 02:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kacie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to distance yourself from this person before you get labeled the same way. You're judged by the company you keep, ya know? You don't need help to "F" up your life. If you think she's the only friend you could ever have, that's sadly ignorant. Why are you so negative on yourself? Get over her, please and stop being such a victim.
2007-01-20 01:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steals from stores??? Keep up being her friend, and you will find yourself with a police record. This girl sounds like trouble with a capital T. Find another best friend.
2007-01-20 01:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should definitely confront her about the way she acts. I would personally rather still have a few friends than only have one best friend who acts up all the time.
2007-01-20 01:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by ubaer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, u should look to her disadvantages, she has got more dis-advantages than the advantages, u have got to leave her, just tell her that, if u didnt stop doing that, i will leave u
2007-01-20 01:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by nuha k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i would tell the police
2007-01-20 01:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋