what does my friend have that i dont? i'm taller than her, n im slimmer than she is n the only thing she probably has is her brain. i do think im prettier than her! its frustrating to be next to her n walk into the room with her n notice all eyes going onto her. guys ask for her number, buy her drinks, n ohhhhhhh here's the best part she hasnt slept with a guy yet. bleh! is it because hsez a virgin that guys r attracted to her? help me pls, how do i get over this? u can see what she looks like at this link
http://www.friendster.com/4917840
please i wanna get over this jealousy thing
2007-01-19 23:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by lala-lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
poeple please check out her page n tell me if shez pretty, atleast i'll know what people think
2007-01-19 23:52:44 · update #1
its not good being jealous of your friend you should be happy for her. good looks isn't everything!!
2007-01-19 23:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by claref4172 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have just got 'it', and being a virgin has nothing to do with it. Maybe you should concentrate on having as much fun as your friend does, instead of being bitter and worrying about if people are comparing you two.
There is nothing more attractive than someone is happy and confident, regardless of who they are with and doing.
You need to stop thinking like this right now, or prepare to live a miserable life.
2007-01-20 07:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi i aint being funny towards you but i had a friend like you once who use to be really jealous of me and made my life hell. She used to say what you did that she thought she was better than me and used to get so angry with me and slag me off to everyone saying why did everyone like me and no her and why diod i get to go out with lads and noone asked her. She was a lot prettier and skinnier than me also and she had gorgeous long blond hair and was briany but the thing is it was her personality. One minute she was being nice then the next minute she was moody and stroppy and no one wanted to know. Even the lads who tried to talk to her if she fancy the bloke she would be rude and horrible to them. So this i think put guys off her.
All i say is be noce to people and dont juist tag along with her if you see a guy then talk to them dont just stand and ignore or tell them to get lost. Wheather she has slept with a guy or not doesnt matter thses guys that talk to her dont know that so this doesnt really mean anything.
Just be yourself the more you fret all the time other what she looks like you are going to end up looking worse. Just love your self for who you are and dont compare yourself to noone. If your personality is fine and your a lovely girl but she still gets spoken to more just let it go over your head. Be careful what you wish for i dont think i would like loads of lads talking to me when i was out with my mates. Have fun life is short to be thinking about people looking better than you.
2007-01-20 11:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably has quiet confidence as aposed to your jealousy fuelled by insecurities.
self confidence is a very attractive attribute.
stop being so obsessed with her and focus on relaxing with who you are and building your own confidence.
don't compare yourself, just be.
good luck.
2007-01-20 08:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by noodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK maybe u are prettier but tell you what. tell yourself this everyday. maybe she is a virgin but if that's what the boys are like then well ya better of without them. boys can be jerks trust me. its the same with ma mate. i better then her and normally cleaner as well but all the boys i want, want her and shes bisexual so don't worry
2007-01-20 07:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by honeyandmustard1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol .. be your self. boys don't go for lucks alone. when your self esteem glass is full you have enough for every one when it's low you don't have any to go around. and lads see it with out noticing they see it.
2007-01-20 07:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS VERY LUCKY TRY NOT TO BE JEALOUS SHE IS YOUR FRIEND .I HAVE A CHILDHOOD FRIEND STILL WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN LOVELY NOT JUST LOOKS PERSONALITY ALSO---------AND ONTOP OF THAT A WONDERFULL FRIEND
2007-01-20 07:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by wilma p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do too much judging; just socialise.
2007-01-20 07:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change you're attitude. you just have to accept it. maybe she's popular than you.
2007-01-20 08:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
were not talking about "jade" again?????
2007-01-20 07:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋