im getting strange kind of fear with marriage proposals which my parents chose.
my parents were confused and took to psyciatrists.they told im under spell of black-magic.
sadly im considered unfit to take my own decisions and being forced into marriage as they feel my matter will settle down with marriage.
but i feel i can still decide intelligently.but im being picturised as stupid.its hurting me.is it something wrong with me.
someone said im having type-a behaviour.could it be that.
i myself am terribly shocked with all this.my entire world changed.i cant concentrate on studies.i lost my confidence.
i personally prefer to get cured before taking decision on marriage.am i right.
2007-01-19 23:35:40 · 9 answers · asked by black-magic 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
how bout trying it for a couple of years, see what happens, marriage is best endured thru chocolate....lots of it too......share your space.......you may be surprised! good luck...oh and these people you are checking you head out with, to see if you have type a or what ever is up for the drawing this week disease, please do go to www.cchr.org the shrinks don't know anymore than the ppl. who make shampoo, or toothpaste...check out www.maricale2soap.com..get three jobs, it'll all look different with quite a few grand in the bank...check out Scottrade, it's fun....good luck..
2007-01-19 23:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to people and psychiatrists. Your behavior is so natural, so natural, very natural. Having been taken to these psychiatrists etc. you are seemingly thinking there is something wrong. NO.NO. This is a categorical imperative justification. I say staight, check with any of your relatives or friends who were recently married, or friends. Everyone goes through these fears, and cannot explain at that age. You are just the same as the world, no different. It is surprising how you have reached the level of picturising yourself as stupid etc. WRONG.
Take all cool. Don't show fear; don't show apprehension; don't show dislike; don't show anything for the matter. Don't discuss, nor talk on the subject unless someone asks you.
You will handle the rest perfectly. BUT MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT FORCED. YOU ARE NOT BRAINWASHED. Take each and every decision yourself. OK.
2007-01-20 08:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kool-kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey baby,
Rocognize that its just a misprogramed in your mind, its no meaning. Look I see one rope in the dark, and fear and run and take the light and see tht its not snake, its rope, i laugh and laugh , now also laughing, because its foolish remember.
The thing its with fear , the emotional make complication by misfeed programmed with. I tell you other story, when i am forteen years old i went 2nd show picture, with my friend . He told i getting sleep so i am leaving , but i not accompany with him. Then after complet the picture when i am walk alone i reached the place which is one man sucided after somenight heard the cry like others mis feed some recall my mind. I run fast, when i fast run this sound is follow me . At least i reach home the sound stop, tht time i check my pocket the match box, tht was made the sound, now also i am smile when i remember it.
Work around when the negative thoughts coming nevermind focusing your attention on some interestive thing s with a few minutes, concentrate other activies, and when you are feel good smile the negative things. , it will fade in long time after. take me story, dont be silly................. smile
2007-01-23 16:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which side of the world do you live on!? Anyway Yes I think you are absolutly right. You need to see a therapist. And as for all this black magic jebberish..well what is black magic anyway? I dont really believe in such things but who knows! You need to make your own decisions and choose your own path. Good luck!
2007-01-20 07:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised at your saying that psychiatrist believes in black magic.
I don't think there is anything in this world called Black Magic.
You might be passing through a specific mind-frame. You might have seen something wrong about marriages (Ekta Kapoor's serials are what is this all about.)
If you think you are not ready to get married, you shouldn't. Consult a nice doctor who doesn't believe in black magic.
2007-01-20 07:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and then experience of the post marriage life,with out marriage you have to be feared with every woman but after marriage you have to be feared with only one woman.
2007-01-20 07:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by rulethisworldman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u r right
4 sure
Whst u can do is pray for God to help u.
It's the only treatment
Jesus loves you...just tell Him your problem
2007-01-20 07:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Zsazsa A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why???? if u have any girl in ur life u can boldly tell to ur parents.
No body gets miss.perfect in this world. All u need is to adjust with the girl that comes ur way.BE BOLD MACHO............
2007-01-24 03:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the Best
2007-01-20 08:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Vaibhav M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋