I just started having a sense of fear when talking to anybody,like a feeling of butterflies in my stomache.If I'm alone in my room and talk into a tape recorder I can speak perfect with no fear .
2007-01-19 22:26:18 · 7 answers · asked by jim C 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you stutter because you are nervous that you will say something "wrong". you're too nervous and shy and your confidence is very low. If someone laughs at you they are evil and not worth knowing. Boost your confidence by writing a book or diary. Join a chat website like IMVU so you can talk to people by typing. the website is www.imvu.com my account is clickie103
2007-01-19 23:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to stammer, too. You have to get used to talking in public for that by trying to make as many appearances in public as you could.
You may join a debate team, reading team, class discussion, seminar, etc that require a lot of talks from you.
If you don't feel like it, try to talk fast (talk a blue streak) all along the conversation. It'll make your stuttering minimized temporarily. And slowly but sure, it'll vanish, then you'll be able to speak at normal rate.
Just trust me, stammering is all about habit. You'll find yourself stuttering no more if you apply those pieces of advice above.
Wish you good luck, partner !!
2007-01-19 22:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Evo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mel Tillis has the same problem...when he sings his words are sharp, clear and without a hint of stutter....he thinks before speaking, doesnt try when mad, talks slow, and most times can overcome the stuttering....It takes practice, but for him it works most times........good luck
2007-01-19 22:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is exactly your stress that makes you stutter.You should try to overcome your social fear and just be yourself.Only one advice:work it a lot.There is no chance that you will fail.
2007-01-19 22:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by ducky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i have this sense too.I think when talking to a tape you feel like somebody is hearing you
2007-01-19 22:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by klint mane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have fear of people specially men, but i talk to them very perfectly, i have no butterflies, Ihave animals going inside my body chocking me, my body shakes inside, i still talk to them very well I think.
don't know what you are feeling.... just nerves?
2007-01-19 22:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a speech class, or drama.
2007-01-19 22:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋