As we know that the feeling of love is natural and it can not created artificialy. So in my openion its no matter either you or she is married or unmarried.
2007-01-19 22:13:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THE GENERAL FEELING WOULD BE THAT YOU ARE WRONG BUT IF BOTH OF YOU ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR PARTNERS AND FEEL THAT YOU COULD BE HAPPIER WITH EACH OTHER THEN I FEEL THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN THIS. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY.
2007-01-20 04:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not your heartily love, but lust for sex and the time she will be forced to stay with you and stops working you will feel the burden.
imagine if your wife does the same thing where could have you landed.
That ******* lady is also a ***** who has no choice of rod in her...
You both are spoiling the life of numerous people with this relation. Its better to stop this illicit relationship or be ready for hell today or tomorrow.
2007-01-21 20:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not supposeds to use the term love here... although love is blind, but its blind cos it's not supposed to see the ugliness of this world. Love makes a person more resbonsible. But you are ready to shrug your resonsibilities of your family. And you call this love... Maybe it's just that you are not satisfied with your wife and you were badly in need of an alternative when you found out this woman. If you really have love in your heart love your family. This will really have a positive effect in your life. Trust me...
2007-01-20 04:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend, pleased to meet u as my case is similar to u.
we both tried a lot to run our marriages honestly but couldn't succeed. when we both were alone mentally we met each other. our relation is very pure n we love each other from bottom of our heart n soul.
u r right feeling of love is natural but b sure it's love n not lust, moreover try not to cheat ur married partner tell her every thing if u don't have courage then forget her. 'meeting ur love n getting ur love', there's a long difficult n emotionally painfull journey. just b honest with urself, ur partner, ur love n yes with God if u really love n don't want to b selfish. remember love is eternal n it doesn't depend on ur meeting in this incarnation.
if ur heart n soul have meet then nothing matters wheather u meet physically or not leave it up to God as according to me marriage is a must to b one in physical terms. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-20 00:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr.Kathayat,as to my opinion , LOVE is a common or a general word that is used to express your wantedness, IF you say I LOVE YOU to your mom or dad its the same meaning , or if you say to your friend ( independent of gender) it also has the same meaning . We give different meaning to the word LOVE because of the feelings that we have towards the person.So if you love that girl, then keep loving her in the manner your best friend offers you. SO dont confuse yourself , sexual relationship(marriage) is not the mere meaning for love.
2007-01-19 22:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by abimano_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Just imagine if your wife is also having same feeling of love which as per your point of view is natural and can not be created artificially would you allow her to do the same thing. If the answer you think is 'yes' then you can go ahead, otherwise, you know what I mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 22:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tarun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
congrats.....!!! u answer ur own question.
yes that is the fact that LOVE cant be created artificialy. to support my opinion i can give u an example of my one friend.let his name is Surya. he was married and have a child. one day Surya came to me and told about a girl who loved him very much knowing that Surya was married. that girl never ask Surya to marry her.she has different way of thinking about life. she knew that marriage is fullstop of being loved. so she was proud to be a loved one, not a wife. after some day Surya's wife came to know about the relation and created a offscene in home.but still...they use to love each other on their own way...
so keep GOING...
2007-01-19 22:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by sayan b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No probs, why u so tensed abt it!! Keep it going as long as it is not interfering with your married life.But if at one point you find that you got to make a choice between wife and her, then say bye to her and return back to your home.
Till then enjoy life!!
2007-01-20 05:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it love or is it lust.i think you want her because she is married and you would NOT be saying the same thing if it was your wife.best thing for everyone is to find someone NOT married that you can love and be happy instead of being a part of screwing up people's lives
2007-01-20 00:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is...What makes you think that you are so special that she will not eventually cheat on you like she is doing with her husband? Remember she took vows with her husband not with you. You should find someone that is available to love you back openly
2007-01-19 22:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definitely matters, it is not morally or ethically correct to cheat ur partner, also marriages link not 2 individuals, but, 2 families.
2007-01-20 02:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋