ive been friend's with daniel for 6 years now and we've been really close. over the years he's always been there for me and i've tried to be as supportive as possible. he's been in and out of relationships with different girls and i've had my share of hook ups and break ups. well he leaves for australia on the 25th and i won't be seeing him for a while. knowing he's leaving made me reflect on our friendship and make me realize that i have had feelings for him from the beginning. should i tell him how i feel? or should i keep mum? at the end of the day i don't want to ruin what we have because, what we have is the kind of friendship you can keep till the end. we're s comfortable around each other, would i make things awkward if i told him? i only have a few more days to spend with him, he's staying at my place the next three nights. please help me
2007-01-19 21:17:14 · 20 answers · asked by julia e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow!!! you are really lucky girl no matter what you decide to do! I had a good male friend, and i always said that id never want any thing to change what we had......well he's now my husband. It did change things for us, but after the changes were sorted out ...its wonderfull. I feel like i have found my soulmate. My Mother always said that you have to be friends before you can fall in love with someone ,then you know that its true. I was lucky my man felt the same way as i did, yours may not or he may feel just like you? Probably does! This trip to my fair country might be a blessing in discuise! How about telling him how deep yor feelings are and what you think that means, tell him what you said in your question! And tell him to mull it over while hes away, and when he gets back to {a} say he wants to give it a go or [b] carry on with your friendship unchanged and not mention it and you will know he dose not want to, and you will put it out of your head and get on with the best friendship you have ever had! No guilt that way! Good luck girl!!ps tell him to enjoy his trip to our wide brown land!
2007-01-19 21:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...i faced the same thing with my close friend but im not sure what you feel is real love or it would of been developed in the past years you were his friend and the same goes for him, i think you should keep your feelings for yourself im sure he knows you love him and he loves you friends also can love each ather but diffrent kind of love,and if he is going on all sides away so he wont stay anyway if you told him you love him, im sure your both will stay communicated in the while hes going and you can leater on see how you become after he leaves maybe you will also find someone near you and same goes for him,,,, good luck ,,,
2007-01-20 05:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ask me anything about men 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.It's most likely that if he dont feel the same,that it'll all have been forgotten once he gets back.Plus,this sounds like a sweet love story.Him going off in a couple of days,girl loving him for their entire friendship,afraid to tell this boy but also afraid of letting this boy go without him knowing how she feels.Seems perfect,try and see how the ending goes!
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2007-01-20 05:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you still be friend with him if he doesn't feel the same? If yes, then tell him. I had a best friend and I loved him so much, after few years he told me he loves me more than a friend and I told him I didn't feel that way and I lost him. He doesn't want to get too close to me anymore because he said it hurts. Well...
2007-01-20 05:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can just wait and see how things develop.. If you tell him and he doesn't feel the same - your friendship may suffer. You could drop a few hints and see how he reacts and also be on the lookout for signs from him.
2007-01-20 05:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrap your legs around him and ride him like dingy in a hurricane. then while he climaxes tell him that you love him. if he is as comfortable around you as you are around him then he won't be able to deny any feelings he has for you along those lines if he has any other than friends, when he might deny them because of awkwardness otherwise, but if he dosent feel that way towards you then he sould push you away when making a sexual advance because of respect of a friend.
2007-01-20 05:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffinately tell him. I know that its hard at first but then you have the rest of ur lyf with him. I had to do the same. And now we hug we hold hands we kiss. And were happy. I only had to say wot 3 words... I LOVE YOU!!!
2007-01-20 07:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ... You never had a thing for this guy ... you're just reacting to him leaving to australia that's why you don't want to lose him and dying to keep him around no matter what ...
2007-01-20 05:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u have feelings for him it will never work unless u try. And at the end of the day u can have ur mom and ur friend.
2007-01-20 10:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky one,,
but with the help of my culture secetary ms J Goody I'm able to assist.
follow your heart and do what you feel best. He sounds like a decient chap, He'll understand whatever happens.
2007-01-20 05:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by "THE WISE ONE" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋