i made a serious mistake wish i knew how to fix it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i am so sorry i don't know what to do or say. my stomach aches to hear your voice and for you to tell me everthing can be alright.
2007-01-20 02:43:47
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answered by nothere 2
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Whenever I'm upset and feeling a little down. I do something to get my mind off what is making me upset. It's important that you stop thinking about it for now, because you'll keep running over the conversation in your head and over analyse what happened meaning you'll be wondering if you could have avoided what happened and wishing you had said something else. Obviously, your interests are going to be different to mine, but go make yourself busy with something, whether that be shopping with friends, baking a cake, go put some of your favourite music on loud and sing along as you clean the house, sit and watch your favourite film or something to make you laugh. Do you play an instrument or are you artistic? Go and use your frustration to your advantage! Go spend time with family, go and walk the dog, read a book. If you feel your eyes starting to well up with tears, try looking upwards, pincing yourself or biting your tongue (softly), this normally works for me. Alternatively, go pamper yourself, put on some make up and tell yourself you look gorgeous! Then don't let yourself ruin your look by crying!! Who knows, hopefully when the person you spoke to has calmed down they might realise how mean they were when they spoke to you and call to apologise.
2016-03-29 05:55:14
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answered by ? 4
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I have the same problem. Gee love sucks!. Try to live each day as it comes and soon enough it gets much better. Takes awhile though and can be really hard but ya just have to stay strong and realise that if they are making you cry then there most likely not worth it and you will eventually find someone that won't make you cry. Thats what I keep telling myself anyway:)
2007-01-19 20:52:39
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answered by MizK♥ 3
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Well, sometimes that happens, you seem to hurt the one you love the most. But, I guess I would just go for a walk and get away from that person for a while until my head clears.
2007-01-19 22:02:22
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answered by spiritcavegrl 7
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Logically, you cry.
Illogically, you knock yourself out trying to find out why you are crying. The sad thing is that sometimes knowing why doesn't help you stop crying , so; you still cry.
Oh well.
2007-01-20 08:43:13
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answered by LORD Z 7
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Jeeze, somebody cue the violin music
2007-01-19 20:47:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Madonna once said in her song Erotica:
"Only the one who inflicts the pain, can take it away!"
I disagree with that...Because you are the one giving power to the other person, therefore you can take it back!!!
2007-01-19 21:01:31
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answered by Sherluck 6
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you take the tough road, and realize no one is worth crying for...and move on.
2007-01-19 20:50:02
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answered by indithral11 2
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keep putting one foot in front of the other and walk on
2007-01-19 21:10:06
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answered by Leveler 6
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Just ignore the person and move on !!!
2007-01-19 20:50:24
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answered by Anonymous
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