inlove,first time really,midlife,kids old enough to take care of themselves, I want a brand new baby,am I labeled in life...Please..Please help! I am inlove and will proceed...I am in final stages of divorce AND love of my life WAS NOT THE CAUSE of break up..Domestic Abuse was...
2007-01-19 20:35:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey I am my husbands third wife and he is my second husband I think we finally have it rght.
2007-01-19 20:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't look good in people eyes, who don't know you. I have to admit I would judge you when I didn't know the reasons. But I have a friend who's married also 3 times, the first one her husband died, second because he left her for another woman and the third she's happy until now.. and I didn't think bad about her at all because I know the reasons.
2007-01-20 04:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband was Domestically Abusing you, then there is no way you would trust another guy and want to merry him this fast. So right there tells me you are a liar and just want people to feel sorry for you. So I think that you getting married for the 3rd time shows that you have many problems. You need to get your life together on your own before you should get remarried.
2007-01-20 04:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should consider in seeking counseling first. You have gone through so much pain. Instead of getting married, seek counseling to make sure you don't create any problems with your next marriage.
If you are attracted to these types of men, then you may have had some problems while you were a young girl. It is time to talk about it to a counselor and time to heal.
2007-01-20 04:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm wife #4 for my husband, and he's my second husband. We have our moments, but we are happy.
Stop worrying about what other people think of you, what matters is what you think of you. Give yourself time to heal and prove your independence before going into marriage #3 and it will make your marriage even stronger.
2007-01-20 05:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by fawnrising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My Aunt Pat was married 3 times, and the third time was the charm. They were married 33 years until his death on Thanksgiving Day 2005. She misses him greatly.
Oh, and pay no mind to what Christina has to say! People who go around calling other people "liars" without even knowing them, and who don't even know how to SPELL the word "liar," have no place giving ANYBODY advice!!
2007-01-20 04:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It took me over 10 years to trust a man after my first one abused me, why would you jump so fast, give yourself some time.
2007-01-20 05:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom is in her 4th marriage and I know it is FINAL. She has found an awesome guy who treats her like his goddess and I am so happy for her. There is bad stigma about number of marriages after 2 or so, but who the heck cares-be happy!
:-)
2007-01-20 07:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look like someone who has, hopefully, learned a lot in life from some pretty tough situations.
Good luck in your new life.
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2007-01-20 04:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all! It can happen to anyone... good luck to you
2007-01-20 04:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by yuliyasa2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋