my mom has azma and she smokes i try to take them away from her or tell her to stop smoking and she just tells me to mind my business what should i do? plz help
2007-01-19 20:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by Andria L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask her if her life insurance is paid up and that you are the beneficiary.
2007-01-19 20:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Harry Merkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard on you and you want what is best for your mother. But the only person who can help her, is herself. She has to want to quit smoking for herself. Smoking is just like a drug addict trying to quit drugs. It's very hard to stop, because it is so addicting. There is absolutely nobody that can make her quit. I know how hard this is for you. I am a smoker and have been for 30 years. My children want me to quit so bad, but the more they push me into quitting, the more I want to smoke. So, maybe the best thing to do, is back down a little bit. If she stops hearing how much you want her to quit, maybe she will have some time to really think about it and quit by herself. It's worth a try, isn't it? Good Luck!
2007-01-20 04:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay healthy yourself.
Stay away from her when shes smoking.
Thats really all you can do.
Remember she really might want to quit, she just cant, dont blame her...
Dont get mad at her for it.
2007-01-20 04:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by buterflikizes20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...mind your business. if she wants to smoke that is her choice..even if she is asthmatic, she is grown. i understand youre concerned, but there really is nothing you can do.
2007-01-20 04:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. You tried to help her.
The rest is up to her..... good luck
2007-01-20 05:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant stop her.she is the only one that can beat that addiction
2007-01-20 04:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will suffer if she cannot understand. you are doing your best.Keep trying.
2007-01-20 04:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋