If the Majority of girls who star in porn have been sexually abused, and are more then likely suffering form the life long side affects, don’t you feel sorry for her? Anyone who has sex for everyone to see (and gets paid!) obviously has extremely low self-esteem. Don’t you think? I mean if you truly value your self, you would have some kind moral standards, and not have sex for EVERYBODY to see! What do you think???
I'm not saying I've never watched porn before... however if I do I feel guilty.
2007-01-19 20:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't spend 11 hrs a day looking at it but, I have looked, I was in a candy store getting coffee the other day, there was a man in there going off about pornograghy, and how he never in his life ever looked at porn. A woman that I know (She's a psychologist) walked into the store to get a cup of coffee, I said "Hello Barbera, what would you say, if I told you that someone told me that they have "NEVER" looked at porn", she sipped her coffee and asked if they had a computer, I said "YES", she looked at me and giggled, and said "Well Matt, I would HAVE to say that they are LYING", The WHOLE PLACE CRACKED UP, and the guys face turned beat red, LOL, she said that It's "NORMAL" to peek. I said that "I have problems and I might be crazy", she said "Thats a Given, You're not crazy Matt, It's the ones that insist that they are "NORMAL" that scare me".
2007-01-19 20:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is not only done for the money. One time a porn producer wanted to make a movie about regular people having sex, no porn stars. He ran a small ad in a newspaper, and when it appeared his phone started ringing off the hook. He got 100's of calls from ordinary couples who wanted to appear in a porn movie. My point is that many ordinary couples are into exhibitionism. There are many "amateur porn" websites that feature non paid couples. I am not saying that this makes it right, but for better or worse, porn movies don't have the stigma they once had. For many of the people in the movie, and for many who watch, it is nothing more or less than cheap thrills.
2016-05-24 00:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making arguements that are relative at best. Yes, it is true that many girls who do work for the pornographic industry have a history of sexual abuse, but that is as much a social stigmatism as anything.
In other words, if society, instead, told women that those who have no respect for their bodies or themselves should become librarians, librarians would eventually contain a high percentage of sexually abused girls. Because pornography is considered 'wrong', it becomes a magnet for those who are socially guided by their own insecurities.
Having sex with more than one person is not, ipso facto, a demeaning experience. Neither is having sex in a public place or for public display. It would be equally ridiculous to say that 'true' emotional intimacy between two people could not happen in public, only in private, or that any such public displays of affection would be 'cheapened' because other people were witness to the act.
Treat a waitress as a piece of dirt, and you get/attract waitresses with a low sense of self. Does that mean that waitresses HAVE to have a low self-esteem in order to do their job? Why can't a waitress have a great sense of self, get well-paid, and actually enjoy doing what she does? Does a person's occupation 'determine' their worth?
Your sense of guilt comes not from the act itself, but from your understanding that the girls who participate in such acts are 'unworthy'. You yourself are contributing to their 'extremely low self-esteem' by insinuating that by engaging in such acts for public display, to be seen even by 'morally' upstanding citizens such as yourself, the girls are worthless.
It's the old computer phrase: garbage in, garbage out.
2007-01-19 23:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest,I'm a sixteen year old,and I did watched porn before,but accidentally. In my opinion,it is wrong because...
1)Ever since there's rise in child porn on online, there's more kids out there sexually abused.
2)It makes people being unfaithful to their spouse. If I'm married,I would definitely feel special to know that my partner only slept with me.
3) Sex is not something to be used as a public view.
4) I understand that those girls did porn stars for money but don't you think there are many more ways to look for a decent job?
2007-01-19 20:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not particularly, since it titilates. Yes, the actors act under pressure and high emotional stress despite the drugs and drinks they take; But, it is the profession they chose, not something thrust on them.
2007-01-19 20:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by sunita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that porn is wrong as well. Sex is not at all like they describe it in porn movies. I think it's just ridiculous.
2007-01-19 20:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Corrida 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very! I don't think it's enjoyable to the females at all. It's only an income for them. Porn is wrong... but it's addictive.
2007-01-19 20:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep it is morally wrong to watch two people engage in what should be an intimate situation of love making.
2007-01-19 20:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by dumbdumb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
didnt you ask this a couple of weeks ago? my answer remains the same as before
2007-01-19 20:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋