please tell me caste are important our life?

Question

my friend is hindu and she loved a musim boys. her familly are not allowed. they are not agreed to marry them. the boys is a good human being as a good character, hard worker & work in multinational co. but her father not like him because he was muslim. when they saw both family are not agreed this they are suicide. altimate resualt we mis to life for important the caste. My life caste is no bar. I love man . man is the greatest not caste then i asked to every one caste are imporatant our life or not

Answer 1

I am not Indian but that is such a sad story. It's a shame that caste can separate people that way. But it's the culture in your country and it's going to be very hard to change it. If that's what you want you are going to have to work for it. Good luck. I believe that people should be judged by who they are and not by what caste they belong to.

Answer 2

Caste is not important in our life. It is an imaginary border created by our society in order to give it a definite shape. Caste was created in older times in order to organize and control the society in an effective manner. It was created in order to assign some kinds of jobs to the lower classes and some to the upper classes and thus in those times the wheels of the society ran smoothly.
But today the world is entirely different. In the context of the current social and cultural developments across the globe today we are supposed to be more tolerant and adjusting than ever before.
Today the universal thought process is that we are all humans and hence there exists only one caste and that is humanity.
Tell me one basic difference between a hindu and a muslim. They are both humans. They breathe the same air. They eat the same way, live the same way, dress almost the same way and both believe in God.
It is written both in the Bhagavad Gita and in the Khuran that we should love others and respect other religions. How come the orthodox people forget to read those lines? Life is all one and all the humans are one and the same. We all have the same hearts filled with love and compassion then why can we not live together?
Let us all live together happily and peacefully.

Answer 3

Oh Dear if this was the scene with every family then there woudlnt have been any love marriages in inter caste. There are many families still very orthodox. So for such families we cant help it as they will surely be not ready to listen us what ever u say them. So instead of committing suicide they both have either got registered marriage or may be they wud hve left unmarried. Because death is not an answer to such foolish thoughts. U shud be alive & try to make them realize their mistake at every point of time. Suicide will not make them realize them a damn thing. Bcoz if they really love u they will not stop u getting married with ur beloved.

Human beings are over all the castes. We are Indians & not hindu, muslim or christian. I request u to never try & opt 4 suicide & even dont let ny of ur friends to commit a suicide. It is a crime as well as a sin.................

Answer 4

We Hindus are supposed to have arranged marriages to people of the same caste. For example, I am a Hindu Brahman girl. I would want to marry a Brahman boy. Though if I married a Sudra, I would become a Sudra because I am a girl. It is like last names. You lose your identity to your husband's name. On the other hand, if I was a Brahman boy, it would be kind of okay to marry a Sudra girl because she would become a Brahman after the wedding. But people are also reluctant to do this because then, they will be related to the wifes family, who are all Sudras.

The Muslim thing is because of older issues. Hindus and Muslims fought a lot before they split apart into India and Pakistan. Hindus and Muslims do not have very good relations. It doesn't mean that we Hindus are bad people. Muslims and Hindus just need to learn to accept each other's way of life.

Answer 5

Hi friend, i m agree with u. Because cast is not important more than life. When we child we don't no we are Hindu, Muslim, Sikh or isai. We know this only thorough our elders. But God make us human being only. All the Gods, great saints and gurus teach us do love, help the peoples, do not think bad about anybody. So if we will go on these path. Nothing will be wrong in the world.

Answer 6

Absolutely castes are not important in our life. Your friend can marry that muslim boy. You explain their parents that the boy was good natured and hard working person. If he was really working in a multinational company then he can look your friend well and thus they can live happily. You explain their parents that a person who is being loved is greater than the person who loves. Now-a-days nobody are caring about castes and religions. But your friend should be careful that there mustn't be any problems after her marriage. They should have complent understanding between them.

Answer 7

Caste is not important in one's life and to accept the proposition, one should have broad mind. Caste, Religion and sub sects are creation of mankind. Humanity and character is universal religion. So caste is the creation of narrow minded people who are not educated in truest sense. Truly education man cannot accept the proposition of caste is one's life.

Answer 8

In my point of view caste doesn't matter in love. but my dear friend we live in india. When mahatma gandhi & jawahar lal nehru were not escaped from that then what we are. I think if boy is love that girl & a good character & hard woker then the parents of the girl shoul agreed. i wish your friend get everything which he want

Answer 9

I remember Mahatma Ghandi detested the caste system. We view it as a form of social illness that keeps people as if they were tied to a stake, unable to move. This is something we need to leave behind us as we move into the 21st century.

Answer 10

i am a Sikh according to me girl should marry that boy but i know that we all don't believe in these things but you can't explain these things to your parent, specially people who belongs to Hindu religion. according to the Hindu religion girl or boy should marry in same religion in which they born.