im from texas shes from california we been marry for about 4 years i been here in texas the last 7 months she don't want to come over , i allready tell her that im not going back to california , because my son lives here in texas and i want to be closed with him . please help me i don't know what to do i lover her but i fell like she don't want to be with me i make good money here almost 2000.00 every 2 weeks.
2007-01-19 18:03:24 · 14 answers · asked by gerardo s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like she is done with the marriage or she wants to be married but hold on to her independent lifestyle. A marriage cannot work long distance for most people. If you want her to be with you and she doedn't think she needs to be then obviously you both want different things in life. You have a child in TX and she should understand why it is very important for you to be near him. Good luck with whatever you do, but my opinion is for you to cut your losses.
2007-01-19 18:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering where you both lived before getting married. If you both have settled in California, then why did you move? If your son is living in Texas and is an adult now, what is the purpose of living there if he has his own life now. You need to let your son live his own life. I understand you want to be closer to your son, but you have your life with your wife.
Who are you married to...it is your wife. She needs you too. If you are not willing to live with your wife in California, then that shows that you are not committed to making your marriage work. You can always visit your son in Texas.
2007-01-20 02:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame her for not wanting to live in Texas the a s s hole part of the U S
Maybe she just don't like it there. I have been in Texas and all i have seen was a lot of people that think they are better then anyone.
2007-01-20 02:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by david o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless there's a good reason why she doesnt want to live in CA then leave her if shes making you feel like she dont want you no more. It may be because shes seeing someone else.
2007-01-20 02:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there ,i met my husband in Sacramento ,he's from Texas also,when we got married we moved to Texas ,Oh God first mths i about died ,now 12 yrs later i love it .
i like smaller schools ,people here are kinder ,i love the slow life ,and yes they still have mall's in the south .
love conquers all .
2007-01-20 02:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really of to sit down and talk with your wife
because the married is not a game .try not to divorce
but try an work some thing out with you and your wife
2007-01-20 02:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by a j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like she's gonna make you choose. You be with me in CA or be with your son alone in TX. If my wife ever put me in that situation, then hasta la vista. Blood is thicker than water.
2007-01-20 02:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by SharpGuy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a wife that does want to live in Texas, Mexico has a lot of them.
2007-01-20 02:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my dad always picked a woman over me so he lived half the country away and now i will probably never know him like i want to.Your son should be #1.
2007-01-20 03:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by captain spaulding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you she will want to be with you no matter where you go. If she doesn't come than she does not feel that you are truly united.
2007-01-20 02:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by DRNoraSarasin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋