Let me first start off by saying: I'm Confused!!
There's a guy I met not too long ago at my church who I befriended. One Sunday, we were designated as the primary organizers of the annual "Nursing Home Visit" program [Hence, this is how he got my number]
To make a long story short, any time we talk, we can go on from as little as 30 minutes to hours--just talking. In fact, recently we were both coming from a church program and happened to be getting on the same bus ----and we BOTH missed our bus stops because we were so focused on our conversation with one another. Any time we talk, it just -flows.
He's not drop-dead gorgeous or something out of a magazine, but he's certainly Not ugly.
Any advice?
2007-01-19 17:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
looks fades or god forbid can be scarred for life it sounds like you have alot in common and a great starting place . rent shallow hal and get intouch with the beauty with in the soul
2007-01-19 18:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by drf412415 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are shallow. Chemistry doesn't happen everyday. If your lucky enough to find the real deal--grab it and run with it. Look at all the bad relationships out there. If you could find your best friend, someone you can talk about everything, someone who doesn't judge you, your the lucky one! Looks fade over time. I think if you gave it a shot, you'd realize that having really good communication will make for a really good sex life! Good Luck!
2007-01-20 02:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS aren't everything. As has already been mentioned, someone can lose their looks. I don't find myself attracted to the pretty-boy-snobby-jerks. I mostly dated the plain looking guys who had real personalities.
See where this takes you. I think some physical attraction is important ... and that may develop as you get to know him better. Just enjoy this time!
2007-01-20 02:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by bb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 2000s not the 1940s. Go for the good lookers who are also good with conversation.
2007-01-20 01:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be friends, and see where it goes.
To me personality rates higher then looks.
2007-01-20 02:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋