my husband and i are seperated, we were together for a little over a year, he chose to leave, he was pretty cold about how he left, it was just "you make me miserable, see ya" but i was faithful to him, did everything i could think of for him, I don't know how i made him miserable, he has contacted me once to ask about splitting our property and was questioning me about who this guy was or that guy was on my myspace page and wanted to know if i was dating and got all pissed off when i said i was going out to a party with a guy friend of mine. He makes comments like "your friends shouldn't tlak about me since you don't care about me" it seems like he wants an answer back. I have no idea where he is and I checked his myspace page and he has been talking to his ex wife on there, they had lunch together, he asked me to call him and when i did he started saying really nasty things to me, about why he hates me, etc. He is 30 and i am 25, does he care, whats up with his noncaring attitude?
2007-01-19 17:43:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl he walked out on you so dont let him continue to walk all over you. The road he chose was his idea now choose your own road. Let him be someone else's headache. he may care in a twisted sort of way but it isnt something you should want cause you deserve better. You cant let him control your life from afar worrying about who you with. I say stop entertaining him and eventually he will get the picture and do the right thing which is let you be happy. Stay blessed!
2007-01-19 17:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by shay80800 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he doesn't sound like he does. You two need to end contact if your splitting has your both acting like a couple of children and that is not going to make anything easier for either of you with the way your treating one another. Take him off of your friends list and set you profile to private, get a new number and stay away from him. Unless you like hearing his hateful words and constant gripe since neither of you can be an adult about the split.
-NmD!
2007-01-19 17:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg - he is an insensitive child, girl... you need to move on...
you are obviously more mature & intelligent than him... I know it is way hard, but you will be happier - you deserve better.
In a sense, you are like property to him & the thought of you being with another man (true or not) challenges his masculinity & he can't handle because of insecurity issues. It sounds like he cares more about his fragile ego than your emotions.
2007-01-19 17:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he is rude shy and very bad so why u being shy. don't do that ok. this is 21st century girl and u should not be like any typical ordinary girl try to be strick and fight with him for certain time until he changes his mind and start loving u. try to understand him if not then u do whatever ur heart says.
2007-01-19 18:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by deepak agrawal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he does not care, he has decided that he want's her more. But you know that. He has been telling her every thing you say, and those things that you don't do for him. In doing this she is agreeing that you should be and she is willing too. You are losing him. To someone who wants him back.
2007-01-19 18:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like ur not good enough for him (for what ever CRAZY reason he has) but ur to good for anyone else.
he definently seems jelouse,
and i would be absolutaly frustrated with him!!!
who does he think u are?!?
u arnt his property married or divoriced!
and basically you can talk to who ever you want,
this guys seems to act like the world revolves around him and what eve he says is law,
i think u would be best off ending the divorice ASAP and stay away from jerks like him...
like you said you did everything you could think of for him and deserve a thousand times better!!
2007-01-19 17:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by m V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope u file 4 a divorce because he is not worth the problems. Don't care if he cares or not since he doesn't care abt u!!
2007-01-19 18:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really heartless and insensitive. He leaves you then tries to act possessive? You're still young, do you really want to be with this guy?
2007-01-19 17:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why bother with him? as i see it, he left you, so accept it and move on. you have your own life to live. live it. make everything legal - your separation, the separation of your property, etc. then forget him. you ask does he care? he doesn't, definitely. a person who cares will not left you and hurt you. so, wake up, gitrl.
2007-01-19 17:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
does not matter if he cares. he is bad news.
being hurtful is messed up.
you don't need that.
so what if he cares? what if charles manson cared?
i am divorced. it aint easy. but letting go is best
2007-01-19 17:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by KelticPete 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋