How can you prevent your parents from divorcing?

Answer 1

If you really truly don't want them to divorce...

Ask them what made them get married in the 1st place... ask them how they were feeling the night they made you... and to think of you instead of them. "When you have kids, it's no longer about you, it's about YOUR KIDS" "Can't you go to counseling?"

Answer 2

Hello Nick, ..... well young man givin the facts you have stated you really do not have to worry to much , your parents long ago passed the point of no return which is normaly around five years, what is required by both your parents is some good thearapy sessions with a marrage councilor, along with both of them growing up a wee bit, they may have to separate for a brief period of time while your father gets the opportunity to have a little fling, your mother might also benifit by finding out just what is out there in the real world these days, time does heal most wounds, it is most unfortunate that life has gotten some what harder to survive in days but after fifteen years together they our winners you fail to mention if you are an only child ? whatever your folks our jus tired of the struggle to stay even these days & our taking it out on each other , as for you just keep going to school & get a resonable education tell them both you love them & try help them find some help. by asking your Doctor, or school teacher where one goes for some marrige counseling ? the old fossil.

Answer 3

u cant and u shouldnt try. your parents are obviously not happy, and no parent makes this decision lightly. Do u really want to make your parents live unhappy lives just so that u can be happy? I think that you would be much happier living in a peacefull enviroment, anyone would be. I know it sucks that you cant have the "perfect family" but what u have now is not perfect or your mum and dad wouldent be thinking about this. They also realise that you will be hurt thats enevitalbe, but they obviously think that it will make life better for you in the long run. Just keep loving them both and dont take sides on their issues you will have enough of your own! Good luck to you and your family!

Answer 4

It's hard to prevent parents from divorcing. The best thing to do is be supportive of both parents. Don't take sides, and don't try to get into the middle of it. The best way, honestly, is to stay out of it. If it's meant to happen, it's meant to happen. And it might be the best thing for them. Who knows they could let it pass and maybe your just over exaggating. If your parents don't love eachother anymore, or are just not happy together, it's best for them to be apart.

Answer 5

Unfortunally u can't!! It has 2 b between them. Just know U R NOT @ Fault!! My parents got divorced when I was 9 mo & my sister was 3 yrs old! We always wanted them 2 get back 2gether but them my mom found a guy she really liked unfortunally b4 they could get married he was diagniosed w/ lung cancer & in 3 weeks will b the 1yr anniversary of his dealth! As 4 my father he got remarried 2 my step mom & I love her so it worked out pretty good!!
JUST REMEMBER WHEN UR PARENT DIVORCE IT'S NOT THE KIDS FAULT!!

Answer 6

i divorced my wife to save my children she is an alcoholic and drug user. I have full custody of my girls and they are better off. i can't tell you that you can keep your parents together it depends on their circumstances. I'm sure you don't want to tell the world their problems but it might help if you stay close to both of them before during and after. you can't choose sides and shouldn't have to. it seems like you are very young 13 14 so your life will change but if you look at it your life changes every day . your character is how you deal with change. Kindergarten 6th grade puberty and driving working divorce these are all things that change you not ruin you. breath and keep your chin up.

Answer 7

Sorry to say but you can't prevent them from getting divorced. They have to want to stay together on their own. It might help if they go for counciling,maybe you can try and talk them into going. Good luck

Answer 8

Try to remake a romantic time of theres like First date, Marrige etc. But you cant make them not divorce. Its there choice and hunny there adults they have alot of power. But ill pray for you!<3

Answer 9

spend time with one parent at a time and find out out what is making them mad at each other

-also one parent has to live out of the house for a full year by them selves to get split up

so dont worry and if they split up then im here to talk to cuz my parents get real mad and talk of divorce so i know what ur feeln
and its not ur fualt if you wana talk look 4 my yahoo id and email at my profile

Answer 10

no if its gonna happen its better that they do sometimes people just don't belong together and it's unfortunate they find out to late when there are kids involved. try to take something from the experience instead of holding on.you can learn from this and help someone else and even your self when you get older. life can be a ***** but if we learn to turn it around it can be helpful even rewarding.