When do you feel divorce is the right thing to do?

Answer 1

I do not believe in divorce. There are reasons why, in marriage vows, you say " for better or worse, till death do you part." Well, I'll eat my words on that one. Cheating is probably the only exception to the rule in my opinion. If it just isn't working, try something new. Take her/him on a vacation, just the two of you, no kids, no phone, no work, nothing but you and your beloved, and lots of talking. You're gonna fight. That's inevitable. But spend some time getting to know who the two of you are now, what is going wrong, and remind yourselves of why you married in the first place. Find yourselves again, and spend quality time finding your way back to each other. There is never a point at which you should just give up. Remember that you love him/her, and with love, you can move mountains. One relationship is a small comparison with that. Find common ground, find your footing, and stand up for your marriage! Be willing to fight, but remember to make up afterward.

Answer 2

First u must always bear in mind, divorce is never a solution! There is no guaranteed that if u leave this man now the next one would be better, or even worst. Ask yourself, does botho u enjoy wonderful relationship initially and then deterioate gradually? What r the reasons behind? Besides infindelity of spouse, hv u take a step back and and analize the cause which could it be yourself instead of the other? For example, during any quarrel, nobody will be cool to think that he/she is probably wrong, the person that always at fault is the other. Every married couples go thru different stages, few points that any couples will need to overcome are 1) finanacial issues, 2) children 3) Tolerating of each others. MAny a times , ties r ruin due to monies matters. During courtship monies may sees as a short time issues and often do not carries any pressure. But when u r married, hv yr own house, car, wife & kids to support, this become a major issue and can severe stress for the man as well as woman. Kids can also run down any perfect relationships as children can become a woman new relationship which can neglect her man! Or both can be so emotional that they hv different ways of handling the child which causes stress among all parties.(even the kid) Tolerance of each others r utmost important as we tends to take advantage of our close ones very easily and often ends up with showing disrespect to each others which this is the root of all failed relationships.
So if u r undergoing these phases, do not despair, u r not alone many ppl r going thru this as well. Be patient or go for a consultation which help very much.
Even if u suspect yr spouse r having an affair, u still needs a cool head to face it. Many a times, the alternative to seek attention from another opposites sex is cause by his/her spouse negligence in providing the other proper attention and care.
There's no time limit on how long u need to divorce but yr attention should be on how hard u try! For me, it takes me 10 yrs to finally make the decision.
And pls remember sometimes problems could be inside u and if is not resolve, no matter how mant times u divorce it'll happen again and again. Finally good luck, no matter what u do, hv a cool head and take it easy attitude and u might able to solve yr problems! U may not need to know the right time at all!!!

Answer 3

if there is abuse, then divorce is a must, but if there isn't, jsut think of it this way,,, remember when you were a kid and you just got a new toy, you couldn't wait to get home from school to play with it right? then apply that to husband/wife. if your at work and your dreading going home even for a reason you can't comprehend, it probably means you are unhappy and it is time to move on with your life

Answer 4

The time is right when u start asking "When do you feel divorce is the right thing to do?"

Answer 5

I think divorce is only morally right in the case of infedelity or some other major breach of trust or physical or emotional abuse. "Irreconcilable differences" is a joke in my mind. Thats why you say


"Until death do us part"

Answer 6

When the relationship starts affecting your health and the children's lives; then I feel it's would be the best thing to do.

Answer 7

When you know there's no chance of progress in the marriage.

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Answer 8

when your so unhappy in the relationship and you have tried everything to fix it but it can't be fixed or if your being abused