My friend asked me he other day how many girls or guys I've slept with and I couldn't come up with a number, possibly 25-35. I'm almost 16 tho, I'm bi so that does include girls and guys, so thats 25-35 all together i think not just girls.She didn't have a great reaction.
Is that bad or is it natural??
2007-01-19 17:30:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
LAdy_blu_is you can kiss my white Irish a$$, because at least i don't pretend to be religious and sh.it and go calling somebody a sleazy hoe,
least i can get a man.
2007-01-19 17:46:36 · update #1
If you were responding to your sexual needs then thats perfectly ok. Some of us have higher sexual drives than others - just be careful.
2007-01-20 02:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by beegee 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Different people have different opinions on what sex is and how often it should be shared, but by about 95% of the world's standards you should probably slow down a little. In a few years odds are you'll find yourself in that 95% and really regret what you've done. Then again, most people look back at their past and can point out mistakes. The difference with this subject is that it's a very risky game you're playing. Make sure you're (1) using birth control, (2) using condoms and dental dams, and (3) finding out if your partners are clean or not beforehand. I know it *can* kill the mood, but *it can save your life.*
And an extra bit of advice from someone that grew up around some really horrible guys: Bring the condoms yourself. Some guys think it's a great joke to slit the condom before use.
2007-01-20 02:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know you're a girl and because you are then yes that is ALOT for a girl...For a guy we'd be going out to celebrate...Its funny this double standard. Just to let yuo know most guys (if not all) dont prefer girls to sleep around. i read this somewhere where this 40 year old woman had slept with 25 guys and when she was honest with her man the guy left her....Now you are 15 and at 35...omg...wow, my guess every guy here now wants to move to your city and come see you for an hour.....and they'd be happy to not remember your name.
Wellp, you seem to be a person that loves sex and so i dont think there is anything wrong with it. Just enjoy it but play safe by using protection..it would suck if you got something like herpes or aids because of your promiscuous lifestyle.
2007-01-20 01:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How proud you will be when you tell your future son or daughter about your childhood. You are still a child. At least you'll be able to educate your children about sex since you've had so much experience. Your parents must be proud of you. You've got your whole life mapped out. Well, that is if you don't get HIV and then full blown AIDS. Don't you worry about that. Just stay the course you're on. It won't be long till you're just another statistic.
By the way, where are your parents?
2007-01-20 02:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think poor math skills are normal at your age. Perhaps you should create an excel spreadsheet to track the number of partners you have. You could even create a formula to help you- say you sleep with an average of 4 people per day- you could just put a formula to automatically total the number for you each week- which would be a real help for you next time mom asks.
Good luck- and enjoy your youth!
2007-01-20 01:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by refractorygod 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's funny because in 4 years you will have raging cases of aids, gonorrhea, syphilis, VD, and herpes. Sounds like you're the town bicycle. Everybody gets a ride. At least you'll have a steady job though. Working the corner. Good thing too, cause you'll need that money to buy all those Huggies diapers your kids'll need. In fact I'm pretty sure you'll be the poor man's Pamala Anderson.
2007-01-20 01:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bubba B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a lot to me. You have to ask yourself why you have had so many sexual partners already and how healthy it is for you. Have you put yourself in danger? You might want to look into sex addiction - it can be serious, but at your age, if you catch it you have a really good chance of living a healthy, normal life.
2007-01-20 01:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Richard K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a LOT of people for someone so young. It says that you aren't interrested in having a real lasting relationship with someone and that makes you look bad. It also increases your risk for an STD. I would slow down if I were you.
2007-01-20 01:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem a popular person......
like anything in life moderation gives human beings a longer life, excessive or addictive personalities are heavier, burned out, and are usually neurotic
some handle the excess better....and are admired...like a Hugh Hefner or a Wilt Chamberlain
you at the age, and around people at the age when they awaken sexually.....so are large pool to play in....with less constraints
as long you understand and practice safe sex....you should not experience and physical problems....
the way you state your question....shows that you did not feel it was a problem....till this friend pointed it out
a third of our young people were abused....they get into sex very early and seek sexual approval for social acceptance of the past.....if you were abused i suggest counseling.....if not....you hot to the high school crowd....have the charm to bed.....so enjoy it
Jon
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2007-01-20 02:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
having slept with that many by 16 is not good. i am not saying you are a slut but honey you need to slow down. you have your whole life ahead of you and you need to be careful anyway. i hope that you have been using protection. that is very important and if anyone who laughs at you or teases you for it then they are losers and you don't need to worry what they think anyway. be careful and slow down or take a break from it for awhile. take care and God bless.
2007-01-20 01:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, no. It's not about the amount you've been with, it's about how you do it. Were you safe, responsible, etc. Use condom? You didn't risk anything? I mean, it's fine to have fun, just don't be stupid about it. Most of all though, are you fine with the amount of girls/guys you've been with? Do you feel bad about being with 20+ people, and still only being 16? Or, do you just say to yourself, "Ah, it's okay, it was fun, whatever." It's not our opinion that matters, it's yours. Are you fine with sleeping with however many people? Are you okay with yourself? If you are happy with yourself, then no, it's not bad. If you aren't, and you feel badly about this, then maybe you should take a break, or whatever you see fit to make yourself happier with you.
2007-01-20 01:39:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋