He keeps popping into my thoughts, I really thought that I had gotten past all this...and there it is again. I need to get rid of this. I have a perfectly fine life and love life too...Why is this happening? He moved on....why can't I? Why do I want to see him and talk to him? Why am I being such an idiot, and why does he still get to me?
2007-01-19 17:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Perhaps you need to reflect on the quality of the relationship you had with him and figure out the lessons you learned as a result of his presence in your life. Perhaps you need to forgive yourself, him, or both of you for the mistakes you made in your relationship in order to find peace inside. Be patient with yourself. It takes time to put things into perspective and heal after a breakup.
2007-01-19 17:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here goes: When you feel like you haven't gotton over some one, it is not them you are thinking of. It is the Reason, they are no longer there. Fix and get over the reason the split, then you'll see...it had nothing to do with him at all.
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When we face this, we are most likley the one who got dumped(don't know you situation) but the reasons are the things that eat at us. Were we not good enough, what does she have, that I don't,I gacve everything, all those things eat at us. It's not that they are gone, it 'WHY DID THEY LEAVE'. Fix what ever you thin was wrong, or you can just say, HEY this is me...even if you didn't like that, some one else may(unlesscheating was involved) even then, the reason again. Face the reasons, if it's something you probably should change, then do so...if it's something that is ...who knows...something you cant, then someone some where will like it.
2007-01-20 01:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fool in love with the fool. You should go out with friends and try to meet someone new. No sense in killing your head with this. He is gone and done with you and you just have to keep telling yourself that. There are alot of exgirlfriends of my man that still want to get back with him and he had GREAT reasons why he left them. Every once in a while, one comes up and trys to talk to him in a bar when I get up to go to the bathroom and sometimes they try to text him too, but he NEVER gives them the time of day because he loves ME!!! And when they do come up to him in public to say hi, I just smile at them and tell them hi too because I know that kills them...lol. I know I have a great guy and we've been together longer than him and any of his ex's were and that kills them too!!! The point I am getting at is he is happy now and you need to respect that! Move on and quit being annoying!
2007-01-20 01:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason he gets to you is because you are letting him. It takes alot of time to get over the one you love. It took me 9 years to get over my ex. I would of done anything to see him or hear his voice. Then I found my husband now and all my thought I ever had of the ex washed away. Now I can careless if I see him or hear his voice. But hun it takes alot of time. You can't mend a broken heart fast it does its own healing and alot of tears will fall and restless nights. But during these moments your heart is slowly healing good luck. You can e-mail me if you need to talk Good Luck
2007-01-20 01:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your talking about. I knew this girl in my old town. We both liked each other. Then I moved away. I still can't get over her. How long has it been since you've been with him? Time will help.
2007-01-20 01:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the exact same thing...
If you find the answer; please let me know. Good luck!
2007-01-20 01:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by bentley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋