I'm a guy that is not that attractive, but it this guy I'm talkin to that is so beautiful (to me).How can I win his heart, without being used or taken advantage in the process. I know he be lookin at other guys, but I'm tryin to make a impact on his heart and mind. Help me. what should i do to gain and maintain him?
2007-01-19 17:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just be yourself
2007-01-19 17:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know. If he is gay, i hope he is, then that will be a lesser difficult situation. but if he's not, then thatll be a lot harder to answer. anyways, the strategy is first to act normal. dont make him feel uneasy. let him laugh real hard. have sense of humor. that will do magic. trust me. look at ellen degeneres. and be like her. but if you cant deliver a very funny joke or line. then dont. thatll show, itll be so trying hard. anyways, you can also show your skills,and show him where youre really good at. if you can play the guitar damn well then if there is by any chance that you can play it, then do so. i hope this works out just fine. if you really like him, and you think youd go crazy, and badly needs an outlet. then just tell him. he might just feel the same
2007-01-20 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by justasSkiCKing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's cliche, but just be yourself.
Go out on a date with him, and try your hardest to show how much of a great guy you are.
As to maintaining him...Just be yourself...If he dumps you, you either aren't what he was interested in, which is NOT your fault, or he's just dumb. Whatever happens, as long as you be yourself, it's not your fault, and if you're a good guy, you should have trouble anyway. ^_^
2007-01-20 01:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a lot of tactics to make you appear more attractive to him without having to change yourself at all. But I don't have time to type all that right now, email me at azkid678@yahoo.com and I'll get back to you.
2007-01-20 01:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by RainKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your talking like you want ownership
dating the extreme cute....means you have accepts all the attention thrown to your hot-ties way (and you get observe)....it means if your the jealous type or not self confident it is the wrong type of relationship for you
they cheat less than you might think....bur they get so many opportunities...your gonna have situation pop up......so accept it will happen....and you can't stop it.
win his heart.....just be your self....it that does not work ..let it go..to not be yourself...you will be miserable....cause your faking it for something that you want to be true...and it is not!
good luck
Jon
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2007-01-20 02:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, lack of self confidence is a bad thing...
be confident... and yourself... who cares if he can't se the great person you are... and if he's one to take advantage of people, do you really want to be with him anyway?
2007-01-20 01:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by flyers_girl74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
super glue works pretty well
2007-01-20 01:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good listener...be honest...
2007-01-20 02:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋