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I've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months, yet a friend of ours (G) seems to like me? G always seems to be hanging around me, purposely attempting to sit/stand/walk beside me, and a few times already he's either skipped classes or waited for 2 hours at least just so he could bus home with me. My bf and him aren't as good friends with him as I am, and so far, he hasn't really given any indication of doing anything, although he does seem a bit 'wary' and 'tense' when G's around.
My best friend was the first one to notice G's actions, which seems to have increased/intensified slightly ever since my bf and I showed up together.

I really don't want to confront him though (I only see him as a friend)...so should I be thinking about avoiding or distancing myself from G? Or should I just leave things as they are...

2007-01-19 17:10:54 · 3 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

Also, before my bf and I got together, there was a period of time when other friends decided to playfully made up rumors about how G would always wait for me and how we were 'together'. My best friend thinks that if anything, these 'rumors' were what made my bf 'act faster' and asked me out. Is it possible that G took those rumors seriously, or thought of them as anything else other than jokes? A close guy friend of G's and a close childhood friend of mine had confirmed about half a year ago that G did have feelings for me...
What should I do?

2007-01-19 17:12:54 · update #1

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I think you really need to stay away from him for your boyfriend's sake. If you care for your boyfriend, you won't let him feel uncomfortable. I understand that "G" is your good friend but you need to think about how this makes your boyfriend feel and what is most important to you.

2007-01-19 17:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0 0

if you love your bf stay away from g. maybe its better if you talk to g tell him what you feel..

2007-01-20 01:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jonathan 2 · 0 0

Stop being so attractive

2007-01-20 01:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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