is the other side fun?
2007-01-19 16:58:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Give it a try and then you won't have to wonder.
2007-01-19 17:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seriously, I don't think you can "turn" into anything you're not already. If you're not gay, you might find yourself enjoying the novelty of doing something you might find naughty, but not really get all that turned on by it. If you are gay, or bi, you already know it turns you on, so you wouldn't be "turning" gay, just expressing it.
There was a wonderful This American Life episode about a girl who decided she was gay - her relationships with guys weren't all that successful, and she really liked her women friends, so she figured she must be gay. She started working for a gay newspaper, going to gay bars and concerts, living the life - all except for one teensy little detail, which was that she hadn't slept with a woman yet. It was something to take care of, one of these days. But one day, one of the gay guys in the newspaper office just rubbed her neck - a nice gesture, just get rid of the tension. She felt a thrill that she hadn't felt for months and months, and realized, to her chagrin, that she wasn't gay after all... Imagine having to come out as a straight after going through all the trauma of coming out as gay!
I also have a very sexy friend who described lesbian sex with such delight that my fifteen-year-old daughter, who was listening to the stories, confided in me on the way home that she thought she was gay. "Honey," I said, "after listening to that, I think I'M gay!" But of course I'm not - I'm straight as an arrow, as is my daughter, it turns out.
I think most of the research supports the idea that you are what you are, which is why it's so silly to consider it a sin.
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2007-01-19 17:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Martha E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, baby, The fact that you are wondering probably means you're gay.
I guess is a lot of fun because gay people seems to be on a party all the time.
2007-01-19 17:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jose L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this depends. If you like your own sex, then YES being gay will be more fun for you, but if you like the opposite sex, being straight will be more fun. Don't just switch because you're bored, this is serious no matter how you look at it. Switch only if it better describes you and you'll be happier.
2007-01-19 17:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by susie q 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean like a full moon shows up and you fall to the floor, squirming and yelling in pain..and then you get up and your Gay??? It doesn't work like that lol
You should know how you feel but chances are if you are wondering about it..then perhaps you are?? Only you know ...Good luck
2007-01-19 17:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one "turns gay." Gay people are born that way. Educate yourself.
2007-01-19 17:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lol, I had a fight w/ my husband this morning (on the phone -and he's in Iraq) and I was considering it. Women are more aware of when they f*ck up.
2007-01-19 17:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
everybody should be HAPPY and having FUN and GOOD TIMES
2007-01-19 17:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Douglas b, you're totally right. It's not a choice, you just are.
2007-01-19 17:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by polaris grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to??is it just curiousity?or is your mind playing games with you?I pray that God directs you to make the right decision.......Amen.
2007-01-19 17:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by izuma4 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No but i think George Bush is
2007-01-19 17:04:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋