I'm in a band with four guys and I'm the only girl. After one of our long concerts we usually crash at whoever's house is the closest. Is it wrong for four guys and one girl to sleep in the same bed? Give me your thoughts.................
2007-01-19 16:55:33 · 22 answers · asked by Perfectly Insane 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nate, don't make me hurt you. I know where you live and sleep..................
2007-01-19 17:03:58 · update #1
Hi Ryan
At one time,I was in the music business too. Btw,you're song is coming along real well. There were 5 of us traveling together,4 guys and one girl. 3 of those guys were her brothers. We all slept together in a van,and there was never any hanky panky going on between the girl and me. In fact,once the girl and I stayed in my studio apt for about three weeks and slept in the same bed. And a single bed at that. Still there was no hanky panky. We were just like brother and sister,and we slept with our clothes on. And at the time neither one of us drank beer or smoked pot. Today she is married and we are best friends. I told you about her once before. She lives in Kentucky now.
I assume that after the show when all the work is done,everybody kicks back with a beer or two. With you sleeping in the same bed with all the guys,I feel that you are pushing the envelope somewhat. With a beer buzz going, things might happen that were never intended to happen.
If I were your husband,I would be really concerned. From reading you answers on y/a I get the impression that you and your husband are happily married. And you and your husband have a child. In spite of the very rough and sad upbringing you've had, you
seem to be surrounded by love. J.Paul Getty who was at the time, the richest man in the world once said that he would trade his entire fortune for true love. He would have given all his billions for what you have now. Ryan,I wouldn't take a chance on screwing that up. I would sure hate to see you go down the road of heartbreak. You've been through so much before. You know when God laid out the Ten Commandments? Do you know what by living them,what they were designed to do? To keep us out of trouble! Anyway,got to go to bed. Take care,Ryan, and God bless.
2007-01-19 18:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ryan, I think since you are in the band,and very close friends with the 4 guys,and nothing else,i don't see a problem with this.But some may think you are Lucy goosie. Have a great time being in a band. A Friend
Clowmy
2007-01-20 01:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A band that plays together should stay together...I was the only guy in a band with 3 girls in the mid 90's and that issue never came up...probably cos they knew I snored!!!
2007-01-20 01:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...its nice to have close friends that you can trust...when i was younger...i had a girl friend who's mother was real cool....and my girlfriends Friends and i would share the bed all the time...we would sit up late and laugh for hours and hours...ah the good ole days....hhmm..
2007-01-20 01:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Triton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you fit in one bed?
I think it's okay. who cares. you know what you are doing.
I used to stay over at a guy friends house and sleep in his bed, I never did anything with him, it was just better than sleeping on the couch.
2007-01-20 00:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. However, if I were you I would be very wary of the possibility of four morningwoods pointed in your direction when the sun rises.
2007-01-20 01:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me
And how does Princess above work out that 4 men and a woman is a 'threesome'?
2007-01-20 01:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a 5-way, yes.
2007-01-20 01:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your not having a huge orgy.. how old are you
why do you all have to sleep in the same bed..is there no other space?
2007-01-20 00:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by amana5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem sweetie as long as they keep their hands off you. I'll drive there and punch their lights out for you.
2007-01-20 01:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋