me and one of my closest friends have had trouble handling our frienship lately. We have a lot of history together and its never gotten this bad. We finally got to talking and she asked me to give her some time to think about things. So i did leave her alone and its been about a week. I see her everyday during school for like 5 classes but she acts like i dont exist just brushing by and not even noticing im there. I dont want to keep hurting her more than i already did so im completely silent. She just acts like im not there. How much time should i wait before talking to her again. or should i not speak to her until she comes to me? the problem with the last question is that im afraid she might not ever talk to me again. i dont want to lose one of my closest friends. help
2007-01-19 16:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by My Answers are always right. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im thinking about sending her an email just simply saying that im ready to talk to her and that im hoping she will be ready soon. I have never gone this long without talking to her especiallly if she is around me everyday, so is it ok if i do this?
2007-01-19 17:06:08 · update #1
my advice is this. ive always been one to wear my heart on my sleeve and though it can get u hurt you dont end up regretting later that you kept your mouth shut. if i were u and take her aside and sit down with her and just lay all the cards on the table. tell her exactly how you feel and why and if you messed up the friendship explain why and apologize if you are truly sorry. if in the end you dont get the response you want at least you know you made an honest attempt to reconcile your differences and keep your friendship and you wont look back years from now and say "damn i shouldve told her this"
2007-01-19 16:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by JoannSoler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont go back to her....she'll think you dont care. at least say hey or how r u once in a while since you do have a lot of history and you do see her all the time. let things cool off for a while maybe and let her breath a bit. she probably just needs some girl time to herself. peace.
2007-01-20 00:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance to think and sort things out, if you guy are as close as you say then she will come around when she is ready don't push it you can make it worse between you two
2007-01-20 00:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her until she talks to you. That's what she asked for. Let her see you talking to another female "friend." Don't pay any attention to her, just to the new friend. Hang out with the new friend. Old friend will be curious and will come to you.
2007-01-20 00:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than go and talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 00:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋