i am a married male 35...me and wife love each other a lot...we lead a very happy married life
My problem is my wife's sister also has fallen in love with me....she proposed me and i told NO....but she wants me badly...she told my wife about her love towards me...my wife accepted her sister's love towards me...and my wife wants me to have sex with her sister atleast once in a week...I am not interested in it...WHAT TO DO?
2007-01-19 16:48:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just don't even know how to answer that... I'm flabbergasted! If you don't want to do it, then don't! It's entirely up to you who you sleep with. If your wife gets angry, I'd been high tailing it out of there!
2007-01-19 16:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it no matter what your wife says. If you have a good marriage, this could destroy it. Once you would be with her sister, your wife would be jealous and always suspicious about you being with other women. It's a bad idea. Besides...you are not interested. So why be coerced into doing something you don't want to do that is only going to cause you problems later
2007-01-20 01:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? This is weird.. How can your wife's sister love you when your already happily married? Did you make her think you were interested in her? Tell your wife NO... that your no going to cheat on her with her sister, that just plain sick! And will start a very dysfunctional family. Go on the Jerry Springer show!
2007-01-20 00:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that ur wife loves u as much as she thinks becasue if she did she would not want 2 share u!! Tell ur wife that if she loves her sister that much 2 want 2 share u then she should sleep w/ her sister becasue (& I'm being honest) IF u sleep w/ ur sister-in-law then so IS ur wife!! I'm SORRY BUT UR WIFE & HER SISTER R SICK!!
After my hubby & I were married for 6 mos my sister asked my hubby & He said no then she came & said that he wanted 2 sleep w/ her!! Hubby & I had a fight & found out what actually happened & I told them both if they did sleep together it was over & I would disown them both!! They never did we r still together!! They both loved ME enough 2 NOT HURT ME!! CAN U SAY THE SAME THING??!!!
Hope this helps!!
2007-01-20 01:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove that you wife and her sister are just plain wrong. Have sex with the sister at least once, and tell your wife that you did not like it. Tell her that the sister cannot measure up to her, and that you will not lower yourself again. If you can sell that, you can sell anything and get away with it. Good sailing
2007-01-20 00:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Cythian 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your wife and her sister have issues. You need to make sure you are not alone with your sister in law at any time, and I would suggest couples therapy for you and your wife.
2007-01-20 00:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by searious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your wife and sister are weird and they like to keep in the family. Run as fast as you can away from both of them
2007-01-20 00:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with you sister-in-law it will breakn your marriage up very quickly. Your wife may say she accepts this but deep down inside she is testing you to see if you would cheat on her.
2007-01-20 00:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by l_hannay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. It could be that she might want you to try, but she'll be testing you. If you are not interested, then she needs to realize that it won't happen. If your wife can't understand that, than something is wrong here.
2007-01-20 01:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be031207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your wife and her sister its not gonna happen.But thats just what i would say.Or on the other hand if shes willing to let you then say atleast let me do it with someone i want:)
2007-01-20 00:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Debra T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋