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Me and my boyfriend had attempted to have sex for the first time. After the first 2 minutes of intercourse, he fell out of me, and had told me when he fell out the condom fell off right when he did, and when he tried putting it back on it broke. I've never been pregnant, and I still have 1-2 weeks till my period. He didnt even have pre-***, thats how fast he fell out, but Im still worried. Could I still get pregnant by that? Someone please talk to me, I have no idea what i'd do if I got pregnant now. I know abortion is extream, and adoptions heartbreaking, but I dont have a way to keep the baby. And I wouldnt want to tell my parents if it happens. My boyfriend swears on his life that it didnt break in me, or fall off in me. What should I do? Someone help me =[

2007-01-19 16:24:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

19 answers

relax.

your fine.

next time don't use a sandwich baggy as protection.

2007-01-19 16:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by user name 5 · 3 3

You didn't mention in your posting that he ejaculated prior to the condom breaking so I will assume that he didn't. If he didn't, you can breathe a little easier because the chances of you being pregnant are slim. HOWEVER, I wouldn't trust my future in the hands of my current boyfriend or strangers (like me) on the internet. You have to look out for your best interests and I'm sure being a teen-mom isn't on your list of things you'd like to do before you turn 20.

Not sure where you're from but in Canada we've got the morning after pill which is essentially a high dosage birth control pill. I used it when my boyfriend (now husband) and I had sex and the (used) condom fell off inside. Unlike now where its available over the counter, I had to wait in emerg for hours and run to the pharmacy before close to fill the perscription. I was sick as a dog but relieved I wouldn't be pregnant.

With so much at risk, I would evaluate what you can do from here on out to be safer. Spermicide help lubricate condoms and give extra protection, and maybe he could also finish outside. Lot of girls go on the pill (not safe for STDS though). Abstinence is always the surest way but not always popular. Do what best suits you.

2007-01-19 16:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0 0

Pulling out is ineffective- condoms do not block sperm while their torn. i might say odds are some sperm entered, yet once you're on the pill that's going to be ok. it is not significant in case you all started the pill late, as long as you have been taking it on the time. once you're truly freaking out you could attempt Plan B yet particularly i think of it may be a waste of it sluggish.

2016-10-07 10:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0 0

If this happened like yesterday/tonight, you can take what they call "the morning after pill" IT's like a double dose of the regular pill. You have to go to a clinic.

It will make you feel not to great.

But also, since you are having sex remember that you may fall pregnant, it's a fact you have to understand and accept.

2007-01-19 16:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Venom 5 · 1 0

It is possible you could get pregnant in this scenario. Get yourself some emergency contraception (also known as the morning after pill) to prevent possible pregnancy. You can get Plan B over the counter without a prescription if you are over 18. If you are under 18 call your doctor or Planned Parenthood for a prescription.

Good Luck.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/emergency-contraception-4363%20.htm

2007-01-19 16:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Midwife Jane 4 · 1 1

You probably have nothing to worry about. But to ease your mind you can go to your local planned parent hood or health clinic and a receive a "morning after pill" It works like a high dose birth control pill. You can take it up to 5 days after intercourse. I also recommend you get on some birth control asap! Good luck.

2007-01-19 16:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

If he didn't *** (or pre ***) then you can't get pregnant! Just CHILL OUT! But think about all the things you are worrying about NOW b4 you have sex AGAIN!!!

If you don't want to get pregnant, get on birthcontrol AND use a condom, OR don't have sex.

Also, sounds to me like he used a condom that was too big, or it wouldn't have just "fallen off" so make sure (if you do decide to continue having sex) that he is buying the correct size condoms, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT!!! And that he is putting them on correctly. Actually READ the condom package IT DOES come with instructions!

AND DO NOT listen to that other girl! who told you to take THE MORNING AFTER PILL!!! YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT! AND that **** is too dangerous anyways!

2007-01-19 16:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2 3

i do not think you are pregnant this time but if you feel like you can not wait until marriage then you should go to planned parent hood and get educated and get on birth control pills!! they don't tell your parents so you won't get busted and you are being responsible so maybe next time you won't have to ask anyone if you might be pregnant you will know when it happens! good luck and if your boyfriend is pressuring you and you feel like you are not ready for sex or for a baby and he isn't willing to wait then dump him he isn't worth it trust me i know from experience! i am a mother of four! you might be suprised if you go and talk with your mom maybe she will take you to pph herself have a little faith! god bless!!

2007-01-19 16:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by charity c 1 · 0 0

I think you might be safe, but maybe tlak to your OBGYN. Maybe think about taking the morning after pill, as long as it was very recently. But be prepared that it will make you feel horrible for a day or two.

Oh, and make your boyfriend by condoms that fit snuggly so you dont have to worry about this in the future.

2007-01-19 16:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by MichelleLynn 3 · 3 1

How would you get pregnant if the condom fell off after he was out????? Honey, you only get pregnant when a man ejaculates inside you or on the outside of your vagina (very rare). I doubt you are pregnant. if you do not know the basics about sex, please hold off on it until you are mature enough to know how to fully protect yourself since you really don't want a baby.

2007-01-19 16:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 3 1

You can still get pregnant...why aren't you on the pill or using something besides condoms ??? They aren't 100% effective even if they don't break...

2007-01-19 16:28:50 · answer #11 · answered by Chrys 7 · 2 0

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