alrighty. so here's the deal. im bi. and i kinda have a major crush on this one girl. i know most of you will probably be like burn in hell you shouldn't like women or some **** like that cause thats what i see on some other bi, gay, or lesbian ****...which i think is horrible...but everyone has their own opinions about things. but anywho...here's the thing. there's this girl i really really like. i have liked her since my 8th grade year. im now in the middle of freshman year and i still like her. i usually get over people fast as hell...but i can't seem to get over her. i dunno if she's bi, straight, lesbian. so im afraid to tell her the way i feel. im so scared...but i can't take these feelings anymore. they're ripping me apart. knowing the fact that i can't tell her the way i feel kills me. i can't even describe in words how i feel because...well i dunno its crazy...i feel so many things. she's so pretty. and i feel so weird saying this ****. but its true she is pretty.
2007-01-19 16:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by hottie555 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what should i do?
2007-01-19 16:20:16 · update #1
are you friends with this girl already? if not maybe you could try to be her friend first. you would probably be able to find out how she feels that way (and maybe figure out how you feel).
are you worried about what other people might say? if not then maybe treat this the way you would a boy that you liked.
good luck and i hope this helped a little.
2007-01-19 16:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend some time with her. You might find she's personality-wise not someone you are into in which case problem solved. And you can find out how she feels about gay people in general which will help you figure out if you've got a shot. Apart from that just try and treat it like you would if you had a crush on a guy and didn't know if he liked you
2007-01-20 00:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by helehelo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you can ask her opinion how she thinks about homosexual.. if she is very negative about it.. then my advice to u is that dun tell her ur feelings.. bcos is going to hurt alot and ur can be friends even she doesn't know that you have a crush on her.. if she is okay with it then confess to her your feelings, however there will have slight chance that she may not accept ur feelngs.. So the disicion is based on u... good Luck for u
2007-01-20 00:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work through your fears and build up the courage to take the leap and ask her out. That's basically it. Good luck!
2007-01-20 02:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she was bi or les she would have told you by now and you 2 would have hooked up. she might be waiting for the right time.
2007-01-23 21:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Stupid Me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel her out...do you know her well enough to talk to? if so, ask her some 'glbt questions'--sorta neutral ones --like "how do you feel about the gay marriage issue"---get a feeling for where she stands sexually.
2007-01-20 00:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋