i am married and usually dont back down for anything when it comes to something i am strong in wanting to do. my husband doesnt want me to dye my hair black because he said its unattractive, but i want too cause i like it. he thinks it as i dont care what he thinks, but its just im not changing because of some stupid non aggreeable thing over hair. should i not do it just because he doesnt ever like it or just tell him to deal with it?
2007-01-19 16:10:35 · 20 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's your hair do what you want
2007-01-19 16:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Miranda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels its not attractive on you . I know you want to. why don't you comprimise and get a black wig. and where it when your not going out as an item together so you can get your fix for the black hair its much easier than dying it and then having to change it back later and black is very dark so it will take several times to get it back to a lighter shade and reack havic on your hair in the end.
2007-01-20 00:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever pleases you, you are your own person right? he's not attached to you. So if it makes you feel better about yourself then do it, hey if he doesnt like it then oh well he needs to get over something soo small...I can't imagine someone would get angry or argue about something like that maybe he needs to talk to someone about issues within himself...cause you dying your hair is not about him its about you and what you want or like.
2007-01-20 00:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you thing you can't compromise with his needs why not taking this option Shaving bald and choosing a few wig that might be suitable not only to your choice and husbands but to many other occasions too.
2007-01-20 00:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm... that's a tough one. I'm stubborn and hard-headed like you, but I think you should consider his feelings on this because black hair is virtually permanent! It is harsh and is a big change. He is the one who has to look at you so I think you should talk about it and be reasonable. Like I said I'd normally agree w/you, but it is a big change imo.
2007-01-20 00:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him, don't ask him, Its your hair. And explain to him that you are doing this because you want to, not because he doesn't want you to. Tell him it's not fair, you wouldn't say anything about doing something to his hair. Just go for it.!!
2007-01-20 00:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i took the black dye plunge and havent looked back, i love it, just be aware that its very hard to get out once its in, maybe try a hairdye that washes out in 6-8 weeks to see if you like it or he likes it, if he does go permanent hun, all the best and god bless
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2007-01-20 00:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u have to do what makes u happy.. but for me im the most happy when my husband finds me attractive so i try to do things that he finds appealing, certain clothes, hair color, etc.. im only trying to impress my husband no one else..so its important to me that he feels im attractive..
2007-01-20 00:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your hair, even as your husband he can't make you do anything you don't want to do.
2007-01-20 00:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is this, some baby fight??? grow up, sweetie
In case you didn't know, dying your hair darker makes you look ill, and your skin sallow... too harsh. Secondly, marriages aren't doing thing to each other out of spite.... marriage is putting the other first, doing sweet things, respect, admiration, passion, trust, kindness, solving issues without rage, and leaving the petty stuff in the toilet. You shouldn't want to do it, and he shouldn't care...Get a life.
2007-01-20 00:16:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋