i hate my sister-in-law. shes very "magulang" even her brother and sister doesn't like dealing with her and i always caught her telling unfriendly and negative things about me. i dont want to please her anyway. i just wanted her to be out of my system. how will i do that?
2007-01-19 15:36:45 · 3 answers · asked by silly mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been dealing with her evil twin in my life for 35 years!!!!
I know what you mean. The only way I have dealt with mine is to jsut not take her seriously. I had to ignore the mean things she said to and about me--and just focused on my brother whom I adore, and his (their) 3 children with whom I have great relationships.
They all realize my sister in law is not playing with a full deck, so to speak, so everyone simply tolerates her.
I try to keep her in my prayers...but the answered prayer is slow in coming.
Good Luck, sweetie!
You are stuck with her until he decides to change horses!!!!
YOU did not marry her, HE did!
2007-01-19 15:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize she'll probably never change and will always be nasty and rude. The best thing you can do is ignore or and stay the hell away from her. I'm not sure who married her in relation to you, but you should go to them and politely state that her behavior is rude and that you choose not to be around her because of that.
The only other advice I have is, "what comes around, goes around." Hopefully, one of these days, she'll get what's coming to her and more.
2007-01-19 16:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay away from her. Ignore her. Let your husband know or bother whom ever she is related to the problem. Ask her what her problem is and when she tells you, politely tell her to back off and stay out of your way.
2007-01-19 15:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by somg_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋