but how can i keep it up? my new yr's resolution is not to get jealous as in very jealous with my wife's co-worker.she told me that she was told by him that he like her and should i get bothered even if my wife gave me an assurance that she doesn't have time for things like that...(cheat)..should i give my 100 percent trust?i know that i should but im just getting an opinion w/ others...(sorry for the confusions)thanks!
2007-01-19 15:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by nex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is absolutely natural to feel jealous about your wife. But I think the previous answers neiled it - if she told you about it she is probably very honest and devoted. I feel jealous about my wife too, and not only because other people like her. More often it is when she likes someone else and tells me that she does. But what is important in a relationship is trust and faith. So, try not to stress out about it. Trust her and be a good husband.
2007-01-19 15:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife's are very smart and if she told you that her co-worker likes her then she may be trying to get you a little jealous and get some extra attention from you. The bottom line is to keep the communication good between you and your wife by not letting things build up by talking if you have any concerns about anything. You have to trust her because you love her and want her to know you love her by giving her that 100% trust.
2007-01-20 02:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rev. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being honest with you. Don't get jealous externally or she will never tell you again. Let her feel very comfortable with you in telling you what she feels. The last thing you want to do is show you are jealous and/or get mad. Once she stops telling you, then that is bad news. You may be jealous inside, but, don't show it. Women want to feel that they can be able to talk to their husband or boyfriend about anything without any repercussions. I always talk to my husband about the above and anything else because he never gets mad or jealous. I feel totally comfortable. However, I did have a boyfriend that was jealous and would get mad. With the boyfriend, I always kept things away from him...not good. You should trust her 100% because she is being honest. You can't ask for anything more.
2007-01-19 23:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your wife is not interested in other guys you have no reason to get jealous. If she wants to cheat she wouldn't tell you about her co-worker who likes her. So if I were you I would trust your wife and be grateful that she is attractive. You're the man in possess.
2007-01-19 23:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trust has to be in her. You have no control over the co-worker's actions, but if it's inappropriate or sexual harassment she should report it. Has she done anything to make you distrust her? If she has not then you must trust her. She married you and loves you so just try to relax. If she chose to cheat it would come out and still you would have no control over it. It would be her choice.
2007-01-20 00:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she assured you that she's yours. If she doesn't show any signs of messing around, hey,what's the problem.Trust her and enjoy your marriage. Sounds like you're torturing yourself.
2007-01-19 23:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that fact that she told you how he feels means that you have nothing to worry about. If she wanted to pursue extra-marital affairs then I think she would be more secretive about it. Trust her.
2007-01-19 23:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Cass_17_7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust her. Shower her with effection. Let her know how much you love her each and everyday.
2007-01-19 23:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by melissamarie728 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋