If my husband keeps pic of other women around what the f*** does that mean??????

Answer 1

That means he doesn't respect you, or is plain immature. If it bothers you, he should remove those pictures no questions asked.

No husband should be displaying, or keeping around any pictures of other woman. Especially if it bothers his WIFE, the only woman who should matter in his life. If he wants pictures of a woman, he can take all he wants of you.

God bless you.

Answer 2

Without knowing the entire situation, it is hard to get a real idea of what is going on here. For some reason, he feels the need to make you feel insecure by having those pictures around--almost like trophies. He is tearing you down so that he can build himself, and his ego, up. That's not love, it is emotional abuse with, perhaps, some manipulation going on as well. He is treating you very badly and you have every right to tell him to get rid of those other pictures and to treat you better than he has been. If he won't cooperate, then you have some serious things to consider.

However, given that he is, obviously, playing mind games with you, a decision needs to be made as to whether you want to stick around with this guy. No one, absolutely no one, deserves to be treated the way that you are being treated right now. You may want to try individual counseling so that you can get some emotional support as it is obvious that your husband has some serious problems and you are living with the consequences. Working with a counselor will help you make those tough choices that may need to be made here, as well as give you the strength to create a life of your own so that no matter what you decide, you will be a much stronger person, which can only help you out here. I don't know, but, he sounds like a real s#@!head!

Answer 3

Could mean a lot of things.
Do you know the other women?
Is he in the picture with them?
Is it pics taken from the internet, so he does not know them at all?
May be a simple fantasy. Or could be something serious.
Need to ask him why he has the pictures and listen to him before you make a decision.

Answer 4

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First off it depends on who the picture is of.. how long he's held on to it.. as is it put away in a box out of sight or is he keeping it out in the open looking at it from time to time..

Alot of people.. men and women, will hold on to pictures of someone that at one time meant something to them..its a part of their life , their history, doesnt mean they want to be with that person.. doesnt mean they are secretly wishing things had worked out.. just means that person had a significant part in their life..

Now if he puts it away..and just wants to hold on to it..but doesnt really have anything more to do with it other then that i wouldnt worry about it.. if he's keeping it his wallet.. or somewhere he can get to easily and seems to look at this picture and dwell in the past frequently i would be concerned..

If its a new picture..and he has it near him..id worry..

So u have to ask urself if its something harmless or something that u feel is an actual breach to ur marriage.. and try to put urself in a mind state of viewing it as a third party looking in , rather then being a jealous woman.. because we all tend to come uncorked when Anything involves another woman and our man..so try to view it as if was a co-worker asking u for advice or something about their situation..

Answer 5

When you get married do you throw away all photo's of the opposite sex? Of course not, my wife found some old photo's of friends of mine, and a couple of them happened to be old girlfriends. I had forgotten I even had them around but she knows I love her and did not get mad. I let my wife decide if we should keep them or throw them away and she was okay with keeping them but I went ahead and shredded the old girl friend photo's anyway to show my love was only for her. Maybe your husband loves you but just never thought about the old photo's because his mind is just on you.

Answer 6

That all depends on what kind of pictures.If it pictures of his ex- girlfriends. Then you might want to approach him about it and ask him what is up.
If it like playboy or any other men's magazine i think it just for eyecandy or something. If he denies anything then I would worry especially if he is not interesting in having intimate relations with you. Unless he is trying to spice your sex life by fantasying about the girls in the pictures. I still think that kind of wrong though.

Will I hope that helps.

Answer 7

Well it depends on who these women are? Are they close friends or relatives of his? If that's the case then don't worry about it. Unless they are of new women in his life and/or random women you've never known about...then I'd be suspicious.

Suggestions: Confront him but in a kind way, don't attack him, otherwise if the pictures are harmless, you're going to start a war that neither you or he shouldn't endure.

Answer 8

It may mean different things, including the fact that your husban is a polygamist, which is very natural (because most men are polygamists, including myself). Just ask him, who those women are? Maybe you'll get a good answer.

Answer 9

based on your question, you're a little pissed! that means he's done other questionable things. really look into the fact that he may be cheating. i feel that even when a guy chats online with women or looks at porn that thats totally cheating as well. i think he's up to no good.

Answer 10

I have the same problem with my girlfriend. She just can't seem to let go of those nasty photos of her x with his head buried between her legs. I just found some hidden in her jewlry box and she said she had burned them. Why , if she really loves me, would she still have those photos? My answer to you is he can't be trusted. I am upset to the point of hysteria over it. She is out of town right now and when she gets back, those photos will be on her dinner plate.