how do i tell my boyfriend, my perants and my boyfriend perants that i am pregnant???

Question

im 6 months pregnant and nobody knows except for my best friend

im 16 years old,and my boyfriend is also 16 years old

i dont need no negative answers.... i dont give u negative answers so show some respect

Answer 1

You keep asking this!

You sit them all down and say.... I should have been mature enough to tell you this before now, But I am 6 months pregnant. SURPRISE!

JUST TELL THEM

Answer 2

The best thing for you to do is be honest. If your boyfriend and your parents really love you they will love you reguardless. Before you approach them come up with game plan. Decide if you are going to keep the baby, if you are, then let your family know you will try to graduate or get your GED. Tell them you plan on taking responsibility for another life and that you will work to support your new family. IF your boyfriend chooses to not stick around- then you don't want him to be with you anyways.
A good plan is to tell them in a public place- such as at a restaurant...this way there can be no yelling. Ask your best friend to go with you.

You are a brave girl to not have terminated this pregnancy. I got pregnant my senior year of high school and graduated 7 months pregnant. My daughter is now 1 1/2 years old and the best thing in the world. I'm still with her daddy and we're married and expecting our second child. Don't worry about his parents cause I've learned over the 3 years I've been with my husband- his moms a ***** and has nothing positive to say about me anyways. We were lucky though cause his dad was thrilled. Plus the funny thing was- there were 7 other girls in my class that graduated pregnant too. One of them was my best friend.

May God Bless you and keep you and your little one safe.

And I'll tell you the same thing I told my husband when we found out we were expecting- GOD doesn't give you anything you can't handle.

Answer 3

The longer you hide it the angrier they will be that you lied to them for so long.

They will be upset, but its going to happen eventually, and you would rather they heard the news from you then on the grapevine.

If you tell them now, it will give you all a chance to let the news sink in and when they are over the shock, you will find they will actually start to get excited, and help you plan the birth and get the babys things.

The birth of a child should be a happy one, I think you would be doing everyone, including the baby a favour if the news was out now.

Good Luck and Congrats on the baby, I hope its healthy.

Answer 4

Do it as quickly as possible for everyones sake. My step son and his girlfriend aged 16 and 15 let us know early on. Her father went mad for 3 days and wanted to kill our son but it did not last long. He now lives with his girlfriend and their daughter at her parents house and they all get on really well. It is scary and there is a good chance that the reaction is not going to be the best one when you first break the news but it will change. I would go for telling your boyfriend first. At least once you have told him and you know his reaction you will be able to go to your parents with a better idea of where you stand and also once your boyfriend knows you are no longer alone in letting your parents know. Remember you are not the first or last young girl to become pregnant and it certainly does not mean the end of your life. There are many advantages in the long run to having children young, mind you your parents may not agree with that just yet but they will come round. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

You say, "I'm pregnant and I need to find a good doctor." You really need to tell your parents and get some medical attention. They may be very upset at first but they are going to find out sooner or later. Based on other questions you asked recently, you really should get checked out by a doctor - soon. If you absolutely can't tell your parents, at least go to a clinic in your town if there is one. They can at least provide medical care and give you prenatal vitamins which you should be taking. Being pregnant is a serious situation, take care of yourself and your baby. Best of luck.

Answer 6

You need to tell them right away no matter how scared you are, your 6 months soon you will have a baby you need to start finding ways to support it or thinking of adoption if you do not think that you can handle it, your parents will be mad but I am sure they will help you through this, they have had children them selves and will know how to handle things tell your boyfriend he deserves to know he has a child on a way and if you two plan to keep it your going to need all the money you can get to help raise it right.

Answer 7

I say invite everyone over to your house for a nice dinner, and suprise your parents by cooking the meal, and also cleaning up. Tell your boyfriend before hand, and the two of you could come up with a good way to say it. Whatever you do, PLAN AHEAD!! They won't be happy, but if you are ready, then they may accept it more. Good luck!

Answer 8

Okay. I hate to say this but you are so screwed. Do you know how long it takes to prepare for a baby? Have you been taking suppliments? Have you been getting ultrasounds and regular appointments?

You need to tell them, just TELL them ASAP. I guarentee you that they will now be more angry that you waited 6 months rather than the fact you are pregnant.

Answer 9

How can no one know your 6 months pregnant? Your really showing girl. Anyway if their that dumb not to notice than that's sad. What makes you so sure that your boyfriend isn't going to split when he finds out he's a daddy? Just tell them your having a baby and that you'll raise it.

Answer 10

I would first decide what you are going to do about the baby. That way, when you do tell people you won't feel pressured to do anything that you feel isn't the best thing for your baby inside of you. Then when you do tell them, break it to them softly. I would also tell your boyfriend first, since you know, it is a fathers right to know.

Answer 11

tell your boyfriend first just be straight forward about it don't hide it or lie about it and that way you can both tell your parents together and stick by each other.. I'm sure your parents will support any decision you make. although if you've known this whole time it will be difficulty telling your boy and his parents as they will feel as though you have trapped him or tricked him in to this even though that isn't the case.