my friends all hate me because they say im mean rude and selfish when im not i try to be nice and stand up for myself but i end up yelling back at them and then they tell me im a ***** or a ho etc etc and they tell me i have angery probs
what should i do?? start a new life make new friends who accept who i am? or try to work things out?
HELP!!
2007-01-19 14:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by sweet thang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you take things to heart. I have the same problem. I have many friends who love me because they know I will always protect myself and stand up for myself. But I have lost many friends because me standing up for myself is in their eyes wrong.
A true friend will stand by your side and never hate you cause you are a strong person, those who do are not your friends and weak is what they are.
Good Luck.
But one piece of advise my grandma always told me that I agree with. Mind your P's & Q's.
2007-01-19 15:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the time people dont hate you to hate you...Its funny how you say "friends". I had plenty of rude and mean friends, but i learned to accept them, and move on. I mean dont cross the line. If your "friends" are saying this then maybe finding new "friends" aint gonna be the answer. So just try to appreciate your friends now. cause if they've put up with you for awhile already..they MUST be good friends!
AND TRY NOT TO BE SOO MEAN!!! LIfe is too wonderful to be mean and upset!
2007-01-19 23:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very bad if they think you are mean and they hate you why would they even be your friend. If you are friends with someone there has to be a trait that they like about you. I would advice you to either try to not yell at them or make new friends. Good luck
2007-01-20 00:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to control yourself. Look for books on anger management.
Ask your friends to help you....I believe they would certainly want to. Dun ever try looking for someone who will be able to accept you for your uncontrolable anger. It might be in vain.
wish you good luck
2007-01-19 23:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by cassie d` mignon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u now wu? i have the same prob!! i know how annoying it can be. you should try to go on youre own for a while. thats wut i did and it is still sinking in that i have to hang wit different peepsnow. dont worry if they r ur true friends then they will come begging for u to come back 2 them!! im still hangin wit different peeps and one of my old friens wants to be friends agian!!
2007-01-19 23:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was popular in school and I went through this too. EVERYONE does. Get nice friends and be nice to them.
2007-01-19 23:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start over.. some times the best of friends grow apart.. move on, for you and your friends can be happy... i know what you mean, you dont want to give up old friends.. but you dont whant to be angry all the time...
2007-01-19 23:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be such a mean person and don't yell at ur friends thats horrible
2007-01-19 23:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you say they hate you, then I'd say there not your friends... if they can't accept you, well then, why be around them?
2007-01-19 23:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate you too
2007-01-19 23:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋