I am 13 and started puberty about 10 months ago
2007-01-19 14:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Antonio, this is a duplicate question for you. On the other posting you received an answer from "tomtom". He claimed to be 14 and going thru the same thing, he even gave you his email address. FAIR WARNING....... do not contact him and please don't trust any strangers on the Internet. If you look up questions that tomtom has asked on yahoo he claims to be a gay adult man with a boyfriend. He should not be trying to chum it up with a person your age. Good luck in finding the answer to your question, but be careful.
2007-01-19 16:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by PNSGUY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to say they will come to you but that is probably not so. I am the mother of two girls and It is really hard to know when and what to say to your children. Parents feel like they don't want to tell you too much before you need to know or want to know and also we are told that you will ask, sooooo you may need to go to your dad and to your mom. Maybe at different times and don't be surprised if they react differently and don't know what to say...you didn't come with a manual. So, you may want to go to an adult that you respect and know who is a person that you are also comfortanble with too. Someone that has values, life experience and that you trust, a family member, clergy, school councelor or an uncle...whatever you do always remember that sex is a huge thing, not a small thing. Always respect women...never use them or disrespect yourself by disrespecting them. Sex is more that an act, it is emotions and it is life changing and it is special when it is between two people that are ready and who love and care for each other. That is a truth that I will tell you. So, remember that always. When you don't respect yourself you don't respect others and vice versa. Good luck.
2007-01-19 14:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with your parents but sometimes parents get afraid of talking about puberty with their kids, some want them to stay children !
If you are lucky, and have parents who will talk, start asking them questions and tell them you would really like answers.
Also, go visit the bookstore and see what books there are that might have explanations you are looking for.
Congratulations on being so mature, that you recognize the change and are smart to start asking questions.
2007-01-19 14:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also just started puberty. im only about 12. your step father (if he has seen you lately) probaly knows u r already having puberty. So, that might help u make the choice of talking to him about it. If u want to show them on purpose without them knowing, you should stretch your arms out so they can see hair under your armpits. Maybe you have grown taller. Zits on face. mabey pull on your shirt by it's collar so they can see chest hair. Thats all I can think of at the moment. You can look on the internet and type down questions.
2016-05-23 23:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which parent are you most comfortable talking with? Stepdad can probably give you best information from the male perspective, but moms can be helpful, too. If you have a good relationship with both of them and you have questions, approach them first--you don't have to wait for them to come to you. And, by the way, GOOD FOR YOU for thinking about talking with your parents about this special time in your life. Most kids try to go around their parents--I'm a health educator and mostly I hear from kids who don't want to talk about this kind of stuff with their parents. Even though I teach sex education for a living, I still think it's a parent's responsibility to take part in the sex education process and the information they receive!!! You sound like a great kid!
2007-01-19 14:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best answer i can give to you is go talk to your step father. Cause your a guy it is much comfortable and easy to talk to another guy about it. which will be your step dad. Well I am starting puberty too and it is very easy to talk to my cousin about it.
2007-01-19 14:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother
2007-01-19 14:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by overdriver64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whomever you feel more comfortable talking to about it. I commend you on taking the opportunity to discuss this with a parent. That's what they are for. Not many preteens and teens talk to their parents enough. This leads to problems in the future.
2007-01-19 14:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some books. Not porn, library books about health.
2007-01-19 14:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋