my best friend ever used to tell me every day that i was her best friend. now its like i'm on the bottom of the list. she ignors me and never hangs out any more. she told me to go find new friends and she has so many new friends, not including me. i havn't said anything mean. i've been her friend since 3rd grade, and it's hard to let go. help me please! i can't even think in school! this was all in the past month too!
2007-01-19 14:18:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her why she stopped being your friend. Remind her of the good times you had. Ask her if her "new friends" would do anything for her and if she really thinks they are her friends. If she blows you off she wasn't your friend in the first place. Friends don't do that to each other. Ask her if she's upset with you. Maybe you did something you didn't realize.
2007-01-19 14:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lynze B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She actually said "go find new friends..." wow what a b---h!!! i just think you DID NOT do anything to her...she has just moved on!!!! and that is sad....you were her best friend..i am sorry you cannot even think at school...i would just try to find a friend...that is mean of her...i would not look at her anymore, because it upsets you...ask your mom...maybe she'll know what to do???i am sorry this happened to you!! Forgive her, BUT LET HER GO...SHE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!
2007-01-19 22:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, forget her. You deserve a far better friend than that brat. I had a friend like that too, they eventually come around when you're older but don't let it get to you. That's how social butterflies are, they never learn the true meaning of friendship since they never value their friends.
Good luck :)
2007-01-19 22:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat4073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is what you can do
if she isnt treating you like a real best friend go up to her and tell her we shouldnt hang out anymore- we can be friends but not as close, ppl like that come across everyday i just keep my distance
if shes done this to you for a long time its time to call it quits- keep in touch tho-
hope this helps you
good luck!
2007-01-19 22:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her and get new friends cause she will be jealous of you being happy with new people and for sure she will come back to you asking you to be her friend again. It has happened to me and i forgave her but i was happier with my new friends. So i couldn't be friends with her anymore.
So all i have to say is to forgive her
2007-01-19 22:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH HECK NO!!!! that person was never your real friend from the get-go. she thinks she doesn't need you anymore cuz she believes shes too popular. you need to completely forget about her because she forgot about you. and that's just messed up, don't forgive her because she'll do it again because she knows she can get away with it.
2007-01-19 22:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by L.Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get new friends like she said.
2007-01-19 22:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by robot_lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your question was whether or not to forgive her and it doesn't sound like she's apologized. Just hang out with your nicer friends
2007-01-19 22:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl what did you do? Is there a guy you both like? talk to her and ask what is going on. don't leave it as that. maybe her new friends are telling her things about you.
2007-01-19 22:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by izzyjaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of other people out there your age that you can be friends find a new friend and forget about her it sounds like she dosnt want to be your friend any more and you should just forget her and find a better friend.
2007-01-19 22:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa Anne Hudgens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋