Liking a girl is about alot more then just sex (not that isn't part of it of course)? Personally I look for a girl that I not only look forward to "seeing" but also look forward to talking to. Plenty of my jock friends are all bout looks, and think every girl that opens her mouth for anything except to suck a dick is annoying. Personally I like being able to have a conversation with a girl, and have it go off on all these randomn tangents, and we can laugh are asses off about it together afterwards. (which there is one currently but we're just friends for now). All these guys that are all about dating a girl for the sex and blowjobs are annoying to me, date the girl for her, not JUST her *** and ****. Don't hurt, but don't base it off that soley.
2007-01-19 13:56:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Talking is one the best parts of a relationship. One of the things my bf loves about me is that I am smart and educated and we can have good intelligent conversations. We learn a lot about each other and gain different prespectives of the world this way. Plus because we share so much verbally, we are even that much closer (which carries into the bedroom!!! :P) Thats too bad you friends feel that way, they are missing out!
2007-01-19 14:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by AmyLue 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I like you. My hubby is the same way. All these guys want now a days is a girl who can suck em off and open their legs when they are frustrated so then they can sit down at the table and tell their friends how stupid she is for believing him. Those guys are idiots and dont know how important a woman is. Im sure they wouldnt want nobody talking bout their mom liek that. But u have alot of respect keep it that way we dont have alot of men like u .
2007-01-19 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mother always said you have to be friends before you can be lovers. If you don't have anything in common outside of the bedroom its not much of a relationship. You my friend are a gentleman and a breath of fresh air. Those other guys you mentioned have been watching to many hip hop videos.
2007-01-19 14:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by geminiidream63 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100%. I think a girl with a bad personality is a real turnoff - just think of chicks like Paris Hilton, Brit. Spears, et al...
I must feel that I respect a woman in order to want to date her. She should challenge me on some level, and not just phsically. Oh yeah, I definitely want there to be physical chemistry too - but that alone doesn't fly.
2007-01-19 14:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by ZeroByte 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
So, when are you going to get with the "random tangent" girl? Maybe she's waiting for a nice guy to step up and appreciate her! A man like that makes a girl fantasize.....
2007-01-19 14:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jenr R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree. If I'm in love with a girl, sex doesn't even matter. I can wait as long as I have to until she is ready. I want somebody who I can stay with for a while, not do in a one night stand. Too bad my luck with girls isn't too good.
2007-01-19 14:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dido 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick to your thinking. Treat girls like human beings, not just trash. Obviously, you were brought up with morals. If they want to talk like that or think like that, that is their business. In the later years however, you will be sitting in a totally fulfilling relationship while they are still scratching their heads wondering why they are bachelors or in a bad marriage.
2007-01-19 14:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You are one of those guys that many girls would love to spend time with. Believe it or not, a lot of us don't like those "cool" kind of guys that take advantage of girls. I would much rather spend time with a guy who will listen/talk with me and laugh by my side than with a guy who just wants some. Thanks for bringing this up.
2007-01-19 14:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a guy many of us would want to date! There are decent girls out there too, and you will find one.
2007-01-19 14:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by salsera 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well that's why those kind of guys end up with the sluts and guys like you end up with meaningful relationships...and probably more sex anyway if you have a steady relationship
2007-01-19 14:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋