I'am so mad at this moron.. No clue what to do!?

Question

This has really been bugging me lately. I go to school with a really annoying boy named Jason. I don’t know what his problem is. He will eavesdrop on my conversations with my friends, insult them too. I have him in 6 out of 9 of my classes. Before Christmas break we were doing nothing in Biology so I was sitting on the counter talking to my friend Richie. My feet were resting on the table in front of me. Jason goes and unlaces my shoes! A classmate commented saying you two have a love hate relationship. She was being mean. After I get back from break a lot of stuff has happened in January. In 3rd period he sits next to me and I had dropped a paper. He picks it up and goes to hand it to me so I hold my hand out. He puts it on the desk next to him. I get up to get my paper and he holds it over his head. I grab his hand and he dropped it. I try to be nice to the kid because my mom taught me to treat people as I want to be treated. He asked for my help with work and then proceeds to tell

to work faster! He is like I tolerate you. I was like you mean I tolerate you you’re a pain. He likes to call me fat ( which is so true because I’m skinny) and ugly. He also yelled my friend John and I were dating which isn’t also true. I don’t let Jason see how he angers me. Once I asked him if he tried to be a pain in the butt or did it come naturally. His response was naturally. Friday he was making fun of me for a bad grade and went on and on about it. I lost it and told him to stop acting gay. His response “you wish I was gay” Jason and I are in the tenth grade. Why can’t he just act normal? Sometimes we carry on normal conversations were he will joke around and smile. My patience is wearing thin. What do you guys think ? Today our teacher had us work together for lab. He was being a prick and our other partner was yelling at us. He and I went away from her and were talking to another guy. Jason is like Jackie cried when she got a low test grade. I was like what the frigg?

? I was like I never cried. He was like why did you go to the bathroom. I was like because I’m a girl and we have a certain time of month where you don’t! He asked me to help him during math and I said “ no I might start crying” He’s like what? I repeated myself. I cant help being mean back to him I have no patience for his crap. He comes over and stands by me in history class. During band I was talking to my friend Bill and Jason comes over. Jason proceeds to call me a crack addicted baby. What the heck am I going to do? Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Sounds pretty plain to me that he has a crush on you. Unfortunately he's very immature and doesn't know how to get positive attention from you, so he's going for any kind of attention he can get. He's acting like a 6th grader (at best) instead of a 10th grader.

You can tell him plainly that if he's not going to treat you politely and with respect, you're not going to have anything to do with him. And mean it. Don't be mean to him, just don't have anything to do with him unless and until he changes.

Answer 2

let me just say that this sounds exactly like a guy i bartend with and there is only one thing that i have found that works. total silence whenever jason starts being a nuisance just continue to go about your business i know it sounds cliche but if you can totally shut him out and i do mean totally (that means don't respond to any comments he makes not a word don't even look at him) then he will stop or ask you what's wrong. if he does ask you what's wrong just say " why do you live to torment me do you have a crush on me or something" and just wait for his reaction. remember he only does these things to get a reaction from you so don' t give him one not even the slightest aknowledgement.

Answer 3

*sigh* Some boys can be so immature and ridiculous. (I'm not saying that all of them are, so don't take offense you nice guys out there. =])

You're pretty much doing the right thing. You have to play it cool around him. I am guessing that he likes you...and that's why he's acting dumb like that. Just ignore him and show him that there is no type of romantic or friendly relationship between you two. DON'T make a big deal or report him. (Unless he does something sexually harrassing or others...then do report him...) But anyways, yes, just ignore him. I do that with one kid that I know, and now he has learned that I don't care what he says...he leaves me alone now. yay.

So stick to your guns. Don't be rude or foul-mouthed to him...just prove to him that you are ready and able to ignore him. And he's just a speck of dirt on your shoe.

Answer 4

First of all. You sound very immature and young. Other then that this boy likes you and since someones already told you that I dont need to continue. Are you sure hes the one seeking attention because it looks like your the one on here trying to get attention from the whole deal. Either straight up tell this boy your not interested or talk to the principal. If you get the principal involved he should realize hes acting in the wrong way.

Answer 5

Why don't you yell " stop flirting with me Jason!" Everyone knows you like me so you can stop hinting now! haha cause it sounds like he does-good luck

Answer 6

Sounds like to me. He needs his parents to pay attention to him. His behavior shows that he is seeking attention. His vibes might also show that he could show a problem with his communication skills. this one nurture,not nature

Answer 7

First of all avoiding him wont help , may be you can get help from other friends to make him understand , it is not good to disutrb others

Answer 8

be just as annoying as u can bac to him or go along with watever he says, i no kids like that they just lack in attention so give him attention, try talking to him he might just be lonly and not have anyone to talk to

Answer 9

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Answer 10

I don't need to read anymore than the first paragraph...he likes you...trust me