BTW i hate the word "EMO"!!! So what if I like to wear a lot of black t-shirt and that I quit the cheer leading thing. I didn't want to be a red-head anymore so i dyed it dark brown. And what does it matter if i went from the all-star football bf to the loner/stoner guy. i haven't changed......have I? Anyways, how can I just make them shut-up!?!?!
2007-01-19 13:31:17 · 18 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
u kinda changed yea but im going thru the same thing too. jsut cuz the way i dress kinda dark and stuff they think im a bad girl and a drugie. who cares? i dont really care what people think of me as long as i have a few close friends by my side. and i think it doesnt matter who you date and stuff i think your new bf loner/stoner sounds cute and the same thing happened to me. i was so preppy last year and now i kinda changed. not a bad thing. just show those people that u dont care wat they say about you just walk infront of them being proud and happy with who you are and ignore them completely. and i hate labels like EMO or DRUGIE or PUNK w.e. were all the same deep down
2007-01-19 13:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know if you are an "emo"...
but in that short paragraph above consider there is MUCH change from a girl who was going along with the in croud to a girl who might be asking for trouble. -- especially if you are gravating towards being with the loner/stoner guy and perhaps becoming a stoner yourself.
But school is a time of angst, a time of change and a time to find yourself.
try to live healthy, be good and if you can't be good well be careful.
and as our aunt ange used to advise .. try not to do anything you can't do on a bicycle.
2007-01-19 13:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If you are yourself, it just doesn't matter anymore. I went from dating the hottest, most popular guy in school to dating a guy who was an emo, druggie cutter. I became an emo cutter. It was just stupid all around and I was proud to be called an emo and pissed to be made fun of.
Then I grew up.
Now I am just "me". I have no particular style. I wear clothes so that I don't show cleavage or my mid-drift. I don't dress to impress and I don't dress like a slob. I don't dye my hair, and only would if it would be something **I** liked, not something that complimented my "style".
In the end, I am happy with who I am and have been "accused" of being everything from a "prep" to too much of an "adult look", but it no longer bothers me.
I suggest you take the same stance and realize that you are dressing to be who you are, not who you have to be and just ignore them. (They are just jealous you did something with yourself and learned to be an individual).
2007-01-19 14:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a clue what EMO means (?) .. But a natural redhead is very hard to come by .. and very pretty. Oh well. Hopefully it is a nice saddle brown. As far as you changing ... I don't know if YOU have changed. But you have made a lot of changes in your life. That is my opinion from looking at the list of things you have changed. Just ignore them. They'll tire of it if you don't react at all. Act as though they are all invisible. Good Luck ! :)
2007-01-19 13:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm..yeah very interesting, either you are an emo wannabe or you just look like one. Well just tell them to back off and to also get a life instead of picking on an innocent girl like you.
2007-01-19 14:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by supermoggle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question are you a freshman? if not(and your 10+) then I'll be real with you. You need to get a grip of yourself and tell them to lay off . Even if you are a freshman hell I like wearing black and i used to be on pepquad in 6th grade it dose not matter. You should do what you want and not care what anyone else thinks because hell its your ******* life.
2007-01-19 13:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ellion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am also called emo and it does get annoying. i stabbed someone because of it. but that's a different story. i ignore them. but if i have to i wear something preppy for 1 day and it changes and they no longer call me emo. That worked for me. hopely that might work for you. to shut then up basically find a way to prove them wrong.
2007-01-19 13:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by ashaj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them to shut up and that everyone is different and tell them it's not normal to be a "freakish-happy-freshmen"(your word!)
- Bride
2007-01-19 13:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the same problem of my friend hetty. It just came! Now it's happening A LOT! They called her an Emo**********
At school.
2007-01-19 13:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha im a freakish happy freshman but i dont call people emo
2007-01-19 17:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋