Not sure if i can explain this one correctly but... all through my life i have felt like an outsider. I would love to hear if others feel like this and how they interpret it.
2007-01-19 12:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by elly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I never really found my "niche", I never fit into a group or category. I used to hate being such an outcast when I was a teenager, but now as an adult I could really care less how I am labeled.
2007-01-19 12:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school I felt that way and was a bit angry and didn't know why. Now that I am a little older, I am fine feeling I don't really fit into society. The mentality of so many people in the U.S. I can't relate to, and I was born and raised in the U.S. I function in society because in the end, once you're an adult, you have to, but I love to travel and that is what keeps me sane. I also have many friends from different parts of the world who immigrated to the U.S and I love spending time learning about others cultures. You'll be OK kid. You may be destined for great things!
2007-01-19 13:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by MO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have always felt like a misfit in one respect or another. I think it is because of my upbringing. Maybe you are the same- maybe no one recognized your talents so you could develop them, and feel a sense of pride. Are you artistic or a writer? I can tell you one thing- don't try to fit in with people who are doing the wrong things, just to fit in somewhere. You were created for a purpose, and you fit into the grand scheme of things more than you know. Hold your head up and follow your dreams- you have as much right to live in this world as anyone else. If you are in high school, rest assured that the real world offers many more choices and opportunities for you.
2007-01-19 13:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by catarina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some times i feel like i dont fit into society. Especially considering that I'm a high schooler. Whenever i go shopping , sometimes i go into a store that all the popular people shop at....of course i feel left out. Because i dont fit in with them.
2007-01-19 12:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH yes I know excatly what you feel.A long stor shor my Iq is over 145 MY uncle was teaching me how to read and so on and at 2yr he took me to his collage for testing and I blew this PHSICOLOGY TEACHER OUT.
MY UNCLE STILL HAS THE TEST RESULTS.THIS PROFESSOR SET UP A SCREENING WITH10 other professors from all over the world and with in the month befor I was to be screened I got RUMATIC FEAVER.Needless to say It was not detectyed un till the feaver was starting a 104.9 temp fried some of my BRAIN NOT to MENTION MY HEART VALVES SOUND LIKE ROUFGH SAWED LUMBER. MY uncle started asking me to read ect ICOULDNT ALL THE LETTERS WERE AND STILL ARE SWIMMEN AROUND. (dyslexia) i CCOULD NOT COMPREHEND WHAT WAS READ TO ME SHORT ATTNION SPAN
(add nOW is ahdd)BEING LIKE I WAS IT PISSED ME OFF WHEN AT SCHOL THAT WHEN I WROTE WHAT WAS ON THE BOARD IT DIDNT MATCH SO I STARTED PITCEN a ***** THE STATE OF WASHINGTON SCHOOL BOARD SAID HYPER TENSION AND AGINS MY MOTHERS WILL I WAS DOSED WITH RITTALEN DAILY FROM 1st tru 5th grades.i WAS ALLWAYS ON THE BOTTOM OF THE CURVE BUT PUSHED ALONG. WHEN THE FIGURED OUT HOW YOU HELP SOME ONE LIKE ME I WAS IN 8th GRADE AND I COULD READ. I WAS TESTED FOR IQ AND GRADE SKILL LEVELS THE BOTTOM OF THE CURVE WAS MY CYCLE MY GRAMMER AND STUFF SUX BUT ALL I MKNOW IS WHEN YOU GO FROM A RETARD TO THE TOP STUDENT IN SCHOOL IN A SEMESTER BLOWING UP ALL THE GRADE CURVES DOSE NOT MAKE YOU A POPULAR PERSON EITHER THIS HAS BEEN THE WAY MY WHOLE LIFE HAS BEEN I AM ALLWAYS ON THE OUT SIDE LOOKING IN . I AM ALSO A TRUE ADDICTIVE COMPULSIVE,1 TRUE EXTREAMEST.
ALL OR NOTHING AT WHAT EVER I DUE.
I HAVE AN ADDICTIVE PERSONALITY. I HAVE USED DRUGS AND BOZE TO COVER MY FEELINGS OF BEING LESSTHAN,OR MORE THAN ANY ONE OR ONE GOVERMENT COULD CONTROL.OR ONE WOMAN . I RAISED MY ONLY SON HE IS 21 I THANK THE HEAVENS AND THE CREATOR THAT HE DID NOT SUFFER WITH MY PERSONALITY FLAWS . HIS IQ IS OVER 150 BUT HE IS NOT USEING IT LIKE I DIDTHE MILITARY I WAS SUPPOSE TO GET OCS BUT MY SCORE ON THE ASVAB WAS 148 ONE PERSON WHO ENLISTER WITH ME BEING WE WERE THE 1st COHORT COMPANY SEINCE WW2 HIS SCORE WAS 149
OUC COMPANY HAD A E TICKET FROM THE DOD WE ENDED UP BECOMING COMMANDOS I WAS RECURTED BY SOME SUITES FOR BLACK OPPS. AND AFTER ALMOST A YEAR OF TRAINING ALLOVER THE PLANET I WAS DROPED BEACUSE I COULD NOT HIT A 800METER TARGET WITH MY RIFLE. ENOUFGH OF THAT.LISTEN MY FRIEND
WHAT HAS HELPED ME COPE AND ACCEPT THAT I AM A SPOOK NEVER ON THE ALLWAYS ON THE OUTS LOOKEN IN HAS BEEN MEDITATION.
SPIRITUALLY CONNECTING WITH THE CREATIVE LIGHT THAT BROUGHT THIS ALL IN TO EXISTANCE.I KNOW MY SELF AND I AM ABLE TO HAVE REALATION SHIPS WITH PEOPLE AND GOD NOW THAT I GOT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SELF. IT WILL WORK FOR YOU YOU JUST NEED 2 BE WILLING AND OPEN YOUR MIND THEN YOU WILL SEE MORE IN HEAVEN THAN WHAT EARTH OFFERS TO US ALL.
2007-01-19 14:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMO "society" is kinda like "they" or "them". Perhaps you haven't found the social group of people who share your same tenets.
I believe that all segments make up a society.
In political involvement it is necessary for all "types", "kinds", and "beliefs" to be involved.
There is a place and people for you too.
Good Luck & Blessings.
2007-01-19 13:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do a lot. i've never been the outgoing type that comes up to people. people gaze over me a lot to. even my friends are changing and im not keeping up. its hard to enjoy life when im not even a soul worthy enough to be respected the way i should be. its just crazy how the world has become.
2007-01-19 12:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Esther 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms about consistently, from the age of 5. No LGBT connection, regardless of the reality that. i ultimately pinned issues down 3 years in the past, from one end by technique of analyzing Colin Wilson's e book "The Outsider" which further some telling observations. (And the outsider is in many cases the perfect observer of society) and from yet another by technique of acquiring a diagnosis, on the age of 40 8, of Asperger's syndrome. convinced, I genuinely am no longer on society's organic wavelength. yet a minimum of I have, at lengthy very last, a more effective perfect idea why.
2016-10-15 11:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by xie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, well i've never fitted in really but that's what makes me who i am, all my mates are like minded fruit cakes ( not saying you are at all ).
What is fitting in anyway?, trying to conform to others ideals, fight the system man, oh no you've got me started now.
2007-01-19 13:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by ........ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel like an outsider...? You didn't really give a lot of information, kiddo. If you need to talk to someone, try messaging one of us who answers you?
2007-01-19 12:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by kyakikino 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋